Error
Database query error
Query:
SELECT `id`, `user_id`, `data` FROM `sys_sessions` WHERE `id`='' LIMIT 1
Mysql error:
Table './heromatc_upgrademerged/sys_sessions' is marked as crashed and should be repaired
Found error in the file '/home/heromatc/public_html/inc/classes/BxDolSessionQuery.php' at line 28.
Called 'getRow' function with erroneous argument #0.

Debug backtrace:
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Planning our first date wasn't easy.  Even though her profile told me about her and what she liked; I wanted her to like me, not just what we did.  Her hobbies included rock climbing; so it was perfect that I was able to find an indoor rock climbing gym near her apartment.

The date was scheduled Saturday early afternoon, February 19, 2000.  Since I was driving to see her from 90 miles away, Alison asked me to give her a call when I was about 30 minutes out.  I was a little surprised when I called her to find that she was still asleep.  I didn't know her beyond a few phone calls and e-mails so the first thing that came to mind is that she was out partying or out on a date late the night before.  I couldn't have been more wrong though.

Without digressing too much, Alison woke up early every school day.  She went to school, came home, and studied until she couldn't keep her eyes open.  She was completely dedicated to accomplishing her goal of graduating with a strong GPA; a goal which she accomplished in May of 2002.

Back to the date – I showed up on time.  She opened the door and I was pleasantly surprised to see a cute little 26 year old girl in spandex shorts standing there.  The plan for the date was to go rock climbing, head back to her apartment to get cleaned up and change clothes, then head out to dinner.  She grabbed a few things, and we were off to the rock climbing gym.

Alison and I both had our own climbing shoes and harnesses, but it had been a few years for us both.  I was also recovering from an injury, so I wasn't in my best shape (I cracked my C4 and C5 vertebrae about five months prior).  So we listened to the refresher from the staff at the climbing gym and starting picking climbing routes.  There was one particularly memorable (for us both) climbing route.  Alison was climbing, and had picked a slightly inverted route.  As she was about eight feet off the ground, she lost her grip.  As anyone who has climbed before knows, when a person is climbing an inverted route they need a little extra slack to get around the edge.  So when she fell, she spun and came hurling at me.  Although I didn't feel graceful at the time, Alison remembers it as me catching her in my arms when she fell off the rock.  It was already a successful date.

We may have tried a couple more climbs, but we had fun and decided to head back to her apartment to get cleaned up and change before dinner.

Date will be continued in the next blog post.

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The date was scheduled Saturday early afternoon, February 19, 2000.  Since I was driving to see her from 90 miles away, Alison asked me to give her a call when I was about 30 minutes out.  I was a little surprised when I called her to find that she was still asleep.  I didn't know her beyond a few phone calls and e-mails so the first thing that came to mind is that she was out partying or out on a date late the night before.  I couldn't have been more wrong though.

Without digressing too much, Alison woke up early every school day.  She went to school, came home, and studied until she couldn't keep her eyes open.  She was completely dedicated to accomplishing her goal of graduating with a strong GPA; a goal which she accomplished in May of 2002.

Back to the date – I showed up on time.  She opened the door and I was pleasantly surprised to see a cute little 26 year old girl in spandex shorts standing there.  The plan for the date was to go rock climbing, head back to her apartment to get cleaned up and change clothes, then head out to dinner.  She grabbed a few things, and we were off to the rock climbing gym.

Alison and I both had our own climbing shoes and harnesses, but it had been a few years for us both.  I was also recovering from an injury, so I wasn't in my best shape (I cracked my C4 and C5 vertebrae about five months prior).  So we listened to the refresher from the staff at the climbing gym and starting picking climbing routes.  There was one particularly memorable (for us both) climbing route.  Alison was climbing, and had picked a slightly inverted route.  As she was about eight feet off the ground, she lost her grip.  As anyone who has climbed before knows, when a person is climbing an inverted route they need a little extra slack to get around the edge.  So when she fell, she spun and came hurling at me.  Although I didn't feel graceful at the time, Alison remembers it as me catching her in my arms when she fell off the rock.  It was already a successful date.

We may have tried a couple more climbs, but we had fun and decided to head back to her apartment to get cleaned up and change before dinner.

Date will be continued in the next blog post.

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Our first date

Planning our first date wasn't easy.  Even though her profile told me about her and what she liked; I wanted her to like me, not just what we did.  Her hobbies included rock climbing; so it was perfect that I was able to find an indoor rock climbing gym near her apartment.

The date was scheduled Saturday early afternoon, February 19, 2000.  Since I was driving to see her from 90 miles away, Alison asked me to give her a call when I was about 30 minutes out.  I was a little surprised when I called her to find that she was still asleep.  I didn't know her beyond a few phone calls and e-mails so the first thing that came to mind is that she was out partying or out on a date late the night before.  I couldn't have been more wrong though.

Without digressing too much, Alison woke up early every school day.  She went to school, came home, and studied until she couldn't keep her eyes open.  She was completely dedicated to accomplishing her goal of graduating with a strong GPA; a goal which she accomplished in May of 2002.

Back to the date – I showed up on time.  She opened the door and I was pleasantly surprised to see a cute little 26 year old girl in spandex shorts standing there.  The plan for the date was to go rock climbing, head back to her apartment to get cleaned up and change clothes, then head out to dinner.  She grabbed a few things, and we were off to the rock climbing gym.

Alison and I both had our own climbing shoes and harnesses, but it had been a few years for us both.  I was also recovering from an injury, so I wasn't in my best shape (I cracked my C4 and C5 vertebrae about five months prior).  So we listened to the refresher from the staff at the climbing gym and starting picking climbing routes.  There was one particularly memorable (for us both) climbing route.  Alison was climbing, and had picked a slightly inverted route.  As she was about eight feet off the ground, she lost her grip.  As anyone who has climbed before knows, when a person is climbing an inverted route they need a little extra slack to get around the edge.  So when she fell, she spun and came hurling at me.  Although I didn't feel graceful at the time, Alison remembers it as me catching her in my arms when she fell off the rock.  It was already a successful date.

We may have tried a couple more climbs, but we had fun and decided to head back to her apartment to get cleaned up and change before dinner.

Date will be continued in the next blog post.

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Planning our first date wasn't easy.  Even though her profile told me about her and what she liked; I wanted her to like me, not just what we did.  Her hobbies included rock climbing; so it was perfect that I was able to find an indoor rock climbing gym near her apartment.

The date was scheduled Saturday early afternoon, February 19, 2000.  Since I was driving to see her from 90 miles away, Alison asked me to give her a call when I was about 30 minutes out.  I was a little surprised when I called her to find that she was still asleep.  I didn't know her beyond a few phone calls and e-mails so the first thing that came to mind is that she was out partying or out on a date late the night before.  I couldn't have been more wrong though.

Without digressing too much, Alison woke up early every school day.  She went to school, came home, and studied until she couldn't keep her eyes open.  She was completely dedicated to accomplishing her goal of graduating with a strong GPA; a goal which she accomplished in May of 2002.

Back to the date – I showed up on time.  She opened the door and I was pleasantly surprised to see a cute little 26 year old girl in spandex shorts standing there.  The plan for the date was to go rock climbing, head back to her apartment to get cleaned up and change clothes, then head out to dinner.  She grabbed a few things, and we were off to the rock climbing gym.

Alison and I both had our own climbing shoes and harnesses, but it had been a few years for us both.  I was also recovering from an injury, so I wasn't in my best shape (I cracked my C4 and C5 vertebrae about five months prior).  So we listened to the refresher from the staff at the climbing gym and starting picking climbing routes.  There was one particularly memorable (for us both) climbing route.  Alison was climbing, and had picked a slightly inverted route.  As she was about eight feet off the ground, she lost her grip.  As anyone who has climbed before knows, when a person is climbing an inverted route they need a little extra slack to get around the edge.  So when she fell, she spun and came hurling at me.  Although I didn't feel graceful at the time, Alison remembers it as me catching her in my arms when she fell off the rock.  It was already a successful date.

We may have tried a couple more climbs, but we had fun and decided to head back to her apartment to get cleaned up and change before dinner.

Date will be continued in the next blog post.

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Our first date

Planning our first date wasn't easy.  Even though her profile told me about her and what she liked; I wanted her to like me, not just what we did.  Her hobbies included rock climbing; so it was perfect that I was able to find an indoor rock climbing gym near her apartment.

The date was scheduled Saturday early afternoon, February 19, 2000.  Since I was driving to see her from 90 miles away, Alison asked me to give her a call when I was about 30 minutes out.  I was a little surprised when I called her to find that she was still asleep.  I didn't know her beyond a few phone calls and e-mails so the first thing that came to mind is that she was out partying or out on a date late the night before.  I couldn't have been more wrong though.

Without digressing too much, Alison woke up early every school day.  She went to school, came home, and studied until she couldn't keep her eyes open.  She was completely dedicated to accomplishing her goal of graduating with a strong GPA; a goal which she accomplished in May of 2002.

Back to the date – I showed up on time.  She opened the door and I was pleasantly surprised to see a cute little 26 year old girl in spandex shorts standing there.  The plan for the date was to go rock climbing, head back to her apartment to get cleaned up and change clothes, then head out to dinner.  She grabbed a few things, and we were off to the rock climbing gym.

Alison and I both had our own climbing shoes and harnesses, but it had been a few years for us both.  I was also recovering from an injury, so I wasn't in my best shape (I cracked my C4 and C5 vertebrae about five months prior).  So we listened to the refresher from the staff at the climbing gym and starting picking climbing routes.  There was one particularly memorable (for us both) climbing route.  Alison was climbing, and had picked a slightly inverted route.  As she was about eight feet off the ground, she lost her grip.  As anyone who has climbed before knows, when a person is climbing an inverted route they need a little extra slack to get around the edge.  So when she fell, she spun and came hurling at me.  Although I didn't feel graceful at the time, Alison remembers it as me catching her in my arms when she fell off the rock.  It was already a successful date.

We may have tried a couple more climbs, but we had fun and decided to head back to her apartment to get cleaned up and change before dinner.

Date will be continued in the next blog post.

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Planning our first date wasn't easy.  Even though her profile told me about her and what she liked; I wanted her to like me, not just what we did.  Her hobbies included rock climbing; so it was perfect that I was able to find an indoor rock climbing gym near her apartment.

The date was scheduled Saturday early afternoon, February 19, 2000.  Since I was driving to see her from 90 miles away, Alison asked me to give her a call when I was about 30 minutes out.  I was a little surprised when I called her to find that she was still asleep.  I didn't know her beyond a few phone calls and e-mails so the first thing that came to mind is that she was out partying or out on a date late the night before.  I couldn't have been more wrong though.

Without digressing too much, Alison woke up early every school day.  She went to school, came home, and studied until she couldn't keep her eyes open.  She was completely dedicated to accomplishing her goal of graduating with a strong GPA; a goal which she accomplished in May of 2002.

Back to the date – I showed up on time.  She opened the door and I was pleasantly surprised to see a cute little 26 year old girl in spandex shorts standing there.  The plan for the date was to go rock climbing, head back to her apartment to get cleaned up and change clothes, then head out to dinner.  She grabbed a few things, and we were off to the rock climbing gym.

Alison and I both had our own climbing shoes and harnesses, but it had been a few years for us both.  I was also recovering from an injury, so I wasn't in my best shape (I cracked my C4 and C5 vertebrae about five months prior).  So we listened to the refresher from the staff at the climbing gym and starting picking climbing routes.  There was one particularly memorable (for us both) climbing route.  Alison was climbing, and had picked a slightly inverted route.  As she was about eight feet off the ground, she lost her grip.  As anyone who has climbed before knows, when a person is climbing an inverted route they need a little extra slack to get around the edge.  So when she fell, she spun and came hurling at me.  Although I didn't feel graceful at the time, Alison remembers it as me catching her in my arms when she fell off the rock.  It was already a successful date.

We may have tried a couple more climbs, but we had fun and decided to head back to her apartment to get cleaned up and change before dinner.

Date will be continued in the next blog post.

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Our first date

Planning our first date wasn't easy.  Even though her profile told me about her and what she liked; I wanted her to like me, not just what we did.  Her hobbies included rock climbing; so it was perfect that I was able to find an indoor rock climbing gym near her apartment.

The date was scheduled Saturday early afternoon, February 19, 2000.  Since I was driving to see her from 90 miles away, Alison asked me to give her a call when I was about 30 minutes out.  I was a little surprised when I called her to find that she was still asleep.  I didn't know her beyond a few phone calls and e-mails so the first thing that came to mind is that she was out partying or out on a date late the night before.  I couldn't have been more wrong though.

Without digressing too much, Alison woke up early every school day.  She went to school, came home, and studied until she couldn't keep her eyes open.  She was completely dedicated to accomplishing her goal of graduating with a strong GPA; a goal which she accomplished in May of 2002.

Back to the date – I showed up on time.  She opened the door and I was pleasantly surprised to see a cute little 26 year old girl in spandex shorts standing there.  The plan for the date was to go rock climbing, head back to her apartment to get cleaned up and change clothes, then head out to dinner.  She grabbed a few things, and we were off to the rock climbing gym.

Alison and I both had our own climbing shoes and harnesses, but it had been a few years for us both.  I was also recovering from an injury, so I wasn't in my best shape (I cracked my C4 and C5 vertebrae about five months prior).  So we listened to the refresher from the staff at the climbing gym and starting picking climbing routes.  There was one particularly memorable (for us both) climbing route.  Alison was climbing, and had picked a slightly inverted route.  As she was about eight feet off the ground, she lost her grip.  As anyone who has climbed before knows, when a person is climbing an inverted route they need a little extra slack to get around the edge.  So when she fell, she spun and came hurling at me.  Although I didn't feel graceful at the time, Alison remembers it as me catching her in my arms when she fell off the rock.  It was already a successful date.

We may have tried a couple more climbs, but we had fun and decided to head back to her apartment to get cleaned up and change before dinner.

Date will be continued in the next blog post.

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Planning our first date wasn't easy.  Even though her profile told me about her and what she liked; I wanted her to like me, not just what we did.  Her hobbies included rock climbing; so it was perfect that I was able to find an indoor rock climbing gym near her apartment.

The date was scheduled Saturday early afternoon, February 19, 2000.  Since I was driving to see her from 90 miles away, Alison asked me to give her a call when I was about 30 minutes out.  I was a little surprised when I called her to find that she was still asleep.  I didn't know her beyond a few phone calls and e-mails so the first thing that came to mind is that she was out partying or out on a date late the night before.  I couldn't have been more wrong though.

Without digressing too much, Alison woke up early every school day.  She went to school, came home, and studied until she couldn't keep her eyes open.  She was completely dedicated to accomplishing her goal of graduating with a strong GPA; a goal which she accomplished in May of 2002.

Back to the date – I showed up on time.  She opened the door and I was pleasantly surprised to see a cute little 26 year old girl in spandex shorts standing there.  The plan for the date was to go rock climbing, head back to her apartment to get cleaned up and change clothes, then head out to dinner.  She grabbed a few things, and we were off to the rock climbing gym.

Alison and I both had our own climbing shoes and harnesses, but it had been a few years for us both.  I was also recovering from an injury, so I wasn't in my best shape (I cracked my C4 and C5 vertebrae about five months prior).  So we listened to the refresher from the staff at the climbing gym and starting picking climbing routes.  There was one particularly memorable (for us both) climbing route.  Alison was climbing, and had picked a slightly inverted route.  As she was about eight feet off the ground, she lost her grip.  As anyone who has climbed before knows, when a person is climbing an inverted route they need a little extra slack to get around the edge.  So when she fell, she spun and came hurling at me.  Although I didn't feel graceful at the time, Alison remembers it as me catching her in my arms when she fell off the rock.  It was already a successful date.

We may have tried a couple more climbs, but we had fun and decided to head back to her apartment to get cleaned up and change before dinner.

Date will be continued in the next blog post.

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Our first date

Planning our first date wasn't easy.  Even though her profile told me about her and what she liked; I wanted her to like me, not just what we did.  Her hobbies included rock climbing; so it was perfect that I was able to find an indoor rock climbing gym near her apartment.

The date was scheduled Saturday early afternoon, February 19, 2000.  Since I was driving to see her from 90 miles away, Alison asked me to give her a call when I was about 30 minutes out.  I was a little surprised when I called her to find that she was still asleep.  I didn't know her beyond a few phone calls and e-mails so the first thing that came to mind is that she was out partying or out on a date late the night before.  I couldn't have been more wrong though.

Without digressing too much, Alison woke up early every school day.  She went to school, came home, and studied until she couldn't keep her eyes open.  She was completely dedicated to accomplishing her goal of graduating with a strong GPA; a goal which she accomplished in May of 2002.

Back to the date – I showed up on time.  She opened the door and I was pleasantly surprised to see a cute little 26 year old girl in spandex shorts standing there.  The plan for the date was to go rock climbing, head back to her apartment to get cleaned up and change clothes, then head out to dinner.  She grabbed a few things, and we were off to the rock climbing gym.

Alison and I both had our own climbing shoes and harnesses, but it had been a few years for us both.  I was also recovering from an injury, so I wasn't in my best shape (I cracked my C4 and C5 vertebrae about five months prior).  So we listened to the refresher from the staff at the climbing gym and starting picking climbing routes.  There was one particularly memorable (for us both) climbing route.  Alison was climbing, and had picked a slightly inverted route.  As she was about eight feet off the ground, she lost her grip.  As anyone who has climbed before knows, when a person is climbing an inverted route they need a little extra slack to get around the edge.  So when she fell, she spun and came hurling at me.  Although I didn't feel graceful at the time, Alison remembers it as me catching her in my arms when she fell off the rock.  It was already a successful date.

We may have tried a couple more climbs, but we had fun and decided to head back to her apartment to get cleaned up and change before dinner.

Date will be continued in the next blog post.

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Planning our first date wasn't easy.  Even though her profile told me about her and what she liked; I wanted her to like me, not just what we did.  Her hobbies included rock climbing; so it was perfect that I was able to find an indoor rock climbing gym near her apartment.

The date was scheduled Saturday early afternoon, February 19, 2000.  Since I was driving to see her from 90 miles away, Alison asked me to give her a call when I was about 30 minutes out.  I was a little surprised when I called her to find that she was still asleep.  I didn't know her beyond a few phone calls and e-mails so the first thing that came to mind is that she was out partying or out on a date late the night before.  I couldn't have been more wrong though.

Without digressing too much, Alison woke up early every school day.  She went to school, came home, and studied until she couldn't keep her eyes open.  She was completely dedicated to accomplishing her goal of graduating with a strong GPA; a goal which she accomplished in May of 2002.

Back to the date – I showed up on time.  She opened the door and I was pleasantly surprised to see a cute little 26 year old girl in spandex shorts standing there.  The plan for the date was to go rock climbing, head back to her apartment to get cleaned up and change clothes, then head out to dinner.  She grabbed a few things, and we were off to the rock climbing gym.

Alison and I both had our own climbing shoes and harnesses, but it had been a few years for us both.  I was also recovering from an injury, so I wasn't in my best shape (I cracked my C4 and C5 vertebrae about five months prior).  So we listened to the refresher from the staff at the climbing gym and starting picking climbing routes.  There was one particularly memorable (for us both) climbing route.  Alison was climbing, and had picked a slightly inverted route.  As she was about eight feet off the ground, she lost her grip.  As anyone who has climbed before knows, when a person is climbing an inverted route they need a little extra slack to get around the edge.  So when she fell, she spun and came hurling at me.  Although I didn't feel graceful at the time, Alison remembers it as me catching her in my arms when she fell off the rock.  It was already a successful date.

We may have tried a couple more climbs, but we had fun and decided to head back to her apartment to get cleaned up and change before dinner.

Date will be continued in the next blog post.

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Our first date

Planning our first date wasn't easy.  Even though her profile told me about her and what she liked; I wanted her to like me, not just what we did.  Her hobbies included rock climbing; so it was perfect that I was able to find an indoor rock climbing gym near her apartment.

The date was scheduled Saturday early afternoon, February 19, 2000.  Since I was driving to see her from 90 miles away, Alison asked me to give her a call when I was about 30 minutes out.  I was a little surprised when I called her to find that she was still asleep.  I didn't know her beyond a few phone calls and e-mails so the first thing that came to mind is that she was out partying or out on a date late the night before.  I couldn't have been more wrong though.

Without digressing too much, Alison woke up early every school day.  She went to school, came home, and studied until she couldn't keep her eyes open.  She was completely dedicated to accomplishing her goal of graduating with a strong GPA; a goal which she accomplished in May of 2002.

Back to the date – I showed up on time.  She opened the door and I was pleasantly surprised to see a cute little 26 year old girl in spandex shorts standing there.  The plan for the date was to go rock climbing, head back to her apartment to get cleaned up and change clothes, then head out to dinner.  She grabbed a few things, and we were off to the rock climbing gym.

Alison and I both had our own climbing shoes and harnesses, but it had been a few years for us both.  I was also recovering from an injury, so I wasn't in my best shape (I cracked my C4 and C5 vertebrae about five months prior).  So we listened to the refresher from the staff at the climbing gym and starting picking climbing routes.  There was one particularly memorable (for us both) climbing route.  Alison was climbing, and had picked a slightly inverted route.  As she was about eight feet off the ground, she lost her grip.  As anyone who has climbed before knows, when a person is climbing an inverted route they need a little extra slack to get around the edge.  So when she fell, she spun and came hurling at me.  Although I didn't feel graceful at the time, Alison remembers it as me catching her in my arms when she fell off the rock.  It was already a successful date.

We may have tried a couple more climbs, but we had fun and decided to head back to her apartment to get cleaned up and change before dinner.

Date will be continued in the next blog post.

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Planning our first date wasn't easy.  Even though her profile told me about her and what she liked; I wanted her to like me, not just what we did.  Her hobbies included rock climbing; so it was perfect that I was able to find an indoor rock climbing gym near her apartment.

The date was scheduled Saturday early afternoon, February 19, 2000.  Since I was driving to see her from 90 miles away, Alison asked me to give her a call when I was about 30 minutes out.  I was a little surprised when I called her to find that she was still asleep.  I didn't know her beyond a few phone calls and e-mails so the first thing that came to mind is that she was out partying or out on a date late the night before.  I couldn't have been more wrong though.

Without digressing too much, Alison woke up early every school day.  She went to school, came home, and studied until she couldn't keep her eyes open.  She was completely dedicated to accomplishing her goal of graduating with a strong GPA; a goal which she accomplished in May of 2002.

Back to the date – I showed up on time.  She opened the door and I was pleasantly surprised to see a cute little 26 year old girl in spandex shorts standing there.  The plan for the date was to go rock climbing, head back to her apartment to get cleaned up and change clothes, then head out to dinner.  She grabbed a few things, and we were off to the rock climbing gym.

Alison and I both had our own climbing shoes and harnesses, but it had been a few years for us both.  I was also recovering from an injury, so I wasn't in my best shape (I cracked my C4 and C5 vertebrae about five months prior).  So we listened to the refresher from the staff at the climbing gym and starting picking climbing routes.  There was one particularly memorable (for us both) climbing route.  Alison was climbing, and had picked a slightly inverted route.  As she was about eight feet off the ground, she lost her grip.  As anyone who has climbed before knows, when a person is climbing an inverted route they need a little extra slack to get around the edge.  So when she fell, she spun and came hurling at me.  Although I didn't feel graceful at the time, Alison remembers it as me catching her in my arms when she fell off the rock.  It was already a successful date.

We may have tried a couple more climbs, but we had fun and decided to head back to her apartment to get cleaned up and change before dinner.

Date will be continued in the next blog post.

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Planning our first date wasn't easy.  Even though her profile told me about her and what she liked; I wanted her to like me, not just what we did.  Her hobbies included rock climbing; so it was perfect that I was able to find an indoor rock climbing gym near her apartment.

The date was scheduled Saturday early afternoon, February 19, 2000.  Since I was driving to see her from 90 miles away, Alison asked me to give her a call when I was about 30 minutes out.  I was a little surprised when I called her to find that she was still asleep.  I didn't know her beyond a few phone calls and e-mails so the first thing that came to mind is that she was out partying or out on a date late the night before.  I couldn't have been more wrong though.

Without digressing too much, Alison woke up early every school day.  She went to school, came home, and studied until she couldn't keep her eyes open.  She was completely dedicated to accomplishing her goal of graduating with a strong GPA; a goal which she accomplished in May of 2002.

Back to the date – I showed up on time.  She opened the door and I was pleasantly surprised to see a cute little 26 year old girl in spandex shorts standing there.  The plan for the date was to go rock climbing, head back to her apartment to get cleaned up and change clothes, then head out to dinner.  She grabbed a few things, and we were off to the rock climbing gym.

Alison and I both had our own climbing shoes and harnesses, but it had been a few years for us both.  I was also recovering from an injury, so I wasn't in my best shape (I cracked my C4 and C5 vertebrae about five months prior).  So we listened to the refresher from the staff at the climbing gym and starting picking climbing routes.  There was one particularly memorable (for us both) climbing route.  Alison was climbing, and had picked a slightly inverted route.  As she was about eight feet off the ground, she lost her grip.  As anyone who has climbed before knows, when a person is climbing an inverted route they need a little extra slack to get around the edge.  So when she fell, she spun and came hurling at me.  Although I didn't feel graceful at the time, Alison remembers it as me catching her in my arms when she fell off the rock.  It was already a successful date.

We may have tried a couple more climbs, but we had fun and decided to head back to her apartment to get cleaned up and change before dinner.

Date will be continued in the next blog post.

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  'modzzz_rank_entry_icoheight' => '120',
  'modzzz_rank_permalinks' => 'on',
  'modzzz_rank_activated' => 'on',
  'sys_ps_enabled_group_0' => '',
  'modzzz_rank_entry_icowidth' => '120',
  'modzzz_rank_entry_imageheight' => '225',
  'modzzz_rank_entry_imagewidth' => '225',
  'modzzz_rank_entries_perpage_browse' => '50',
  'bx_facebook_connect_auto_friends' => 'on',
  'modzzz_rank_code_digits' => '6',
  'modzzz_rank_point_activated' => '',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_dcnty' => 'US',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_use_geo_ip' => 'on',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_import_albums' => 'on',
  'bx_zip_permalinks' => 'on',
  'bx_zip_enabled' => 'on',
  'bx_zip_mode' => 'Geonames',
  'bx_photos_activation' => '',
  'category_auto_app_bx_photos' => '',
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  'bx_photos_number_index' => '8',
  'bx_photos_number_top' => '8',
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  'bx_photos_number_previous_rated' => '4',
  'bx_photos_number_browse' => '8',
  'bx_photos_number_albums_browse' => '8',
  'bx_photos_number_albums_home' => '8',
  'bx_photos_icon_width' => '32',
  'bx_photos_icon_height' => '32',
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  'bx_photos_thumb_height' => '64',
  'bx_photos_file_width' => '750',
  'bx_photos_file_height' => '750',
  'bx_photos_browse_width' => '140',
  'bx_photos_browse_height' => '140',
  'bx_photos_flickr_photo_api' => '',
  'bx_photos_number_albums_public_objects' => '4',
  'bx_photos_rss_feed_on' => 'on',
  'bx_photos_uploader_switcher' => 'regular,record',
  'bx_photos_permalinks' => 'on',
  'permalinks_module_chat' => 'on',
  'bx_gsearch_permalinks' => 'on',
  'bx_gsearch_block_tabbed' => 'on',
  'bx_gsearch_block_images' => 'on',
  'bx_gsearch_separate_tabbed' => 'on',
  'bx_gsearch_separate_images' => 'on',
  'pmt_default_currency_code' => 'USD',
  'pmt_default_currency_sign' => '&#36;',
  'permalinks_module_payment' => 'on',
  'simple_messenger_blink_counter' => '5',
  'bx_simple_messenger_permalinks' => 'on',
  'simple_messenger_procces_smiles' => 'on',
  'simple_messenger_visible_messages' => '25',
  'simple_messenger_allowed_chatbox' => '3',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_api_key' => '495270503852897',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_secret_key' => 'bfe75d8660f56eaa0c81086282ae205b',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_option1' => 'FirstName',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_option2' => 'FirstName_LastName',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_option3' => 'LastName',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_allow_spaces' => '',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_copy_photo' => 'on',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_autofriend_list' => '',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_facebook_friends' => 'on',
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  'dbcs_facebook_connect_prompt_pass' => 'on',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_prompt_nick' => 'on',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_prompt_email' => '',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_redirect1' => 'pedit.php?ID={memberid}',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_use_join_form' => 'on',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_set_status_active_oc' => 'on',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_match_email' => 'on',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_nag_time' => '24',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_redirect2' => 'member.php',
  'pmt_site_admin' => '8',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_permalinks' => 'on',
  'bx_spy_keep_rows_days' => '30',
  'bx_spy_update_time' => '10000',
  'bx_spy_toggle_up' => '1500',
  'bx_spy_toggle_down' => '1500',
  'bx_spy_per_page' => '10',
  'bx_spy_guest_allow' => 'on',
  'bx_spy_permalinks' => 'on',
  'category_auto_app_bx_videos' => 'on',
  'bx_videos_allowed_exts' => 'avi flv mpg wmv mp4 m4v mov divx xvid',
  'bx_videos_max_file_size' => '100',
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  'bx_videos_number_all' => '12',
  'bx_videos_number_index' => '8',
  'bx_videos_number_top' => '4',
  'bx_videos_number_user' => '4',
  'bx_videos_number_related' => '4',
  'bx_videos_number_previous_rated' => '4',
  'bx_videos_number_browse' => '8',
  'bx_videos_number_albums_browse' => '8',
  'bx_videos_number_albums_home' => '4',
  'bx_videos_file_width' => '600',
  'bx_videos_file_height' => '600',
  'bx_videos_browse_width' => '140',
  'bx_videos_browse_height' => '102',
  'bx_videos_uploader_switcher' => 'regular,record,embed',
  'bx_videos_permalinks' => 'on',
  'aqb_affiliate_enable_points' => '',
  'modzzz_verify_entry_icowidth' => '120',
  'modzzz_verify_entry_icoheight' => '120',
  'modzzz_verify_entry_imageheight' => '225',
  'modzzz_verify_entries_perpage_browse' => '50',
  'modzzz_verify_seal' => 'verified.jpg',
  'modzzz_verify_entry_imagewidth' => '225',
  'aqb_fb_app_secret' => '631a4e1087be7bc1410964407b8a8f69',
  'aqb_fb_aff_info_upgrade' => '-1',
  'aqb_fb_app_id' => '460183027387047',
  'aqb_aff_per_page_invited_profile' => '6',
  'aqb_aff_enable_invited_profile' => 'on',
  'aqb_aff_per_page_ref_index' => '6',
  'aqb_aff_enable_ref_index' => '',
  'aqb_aff_use_queue' => 'on',
  'aqb_aff_maximum_number_of_emails_symbols' => '300',
  'aqb_aff_maximum_number_of_send_emails' => '25',
  'aqb_aff_allow_their_message' => 'on',
  'aqb_aff_allow_sent_invitations' => 'on',
  'aqb_aff_perpage_browse_history' => '15',
  'aqb_aff_perpage_browse_referrals' => '20',
  'aqb_aff_unique_hsitory_days' => '30',
  'aqb_affiliate_cookie_days' => '30',
  'aqb_aff_make_invite_member_friends' => 'on',
  'aqb_affiliate_referral_link' => 'http://heromatchmaker.com/',
  'permalinks_module_aqb_fb' => 'on',
  'aqb_fb_num_friends_account_page' => '25',
  'aqb_fb_message_title' => 'Find yours today!',
  'aqb_fb_message_text' => 'Dedicated to those in service! Join us today and help us match those who serve with those who serve, and anyone else that wants to be matched with a hero.',
  'aqb_fb_message_picture' => 'http://heromatchmaker.com/media/images/HEROheart.png',
  'aqb_fb_use_aff_system' => 'on',
  'dol_subs_permalinks' => 'on',
  'dol_subs_processors' => 'a:11:{s:10:"csrf_token";s:20:"kUjCF!XHN&sLL.K?vEQf";s:13:"paypal_active";s:2:"on";s:14:"paypal_account";s:23:"Kurt@HEROmatchmaker.com";s:11:"paypal_type";s:4:"live";s:11:"2co_account";s:9:"901248207";s:10:"2co_secret";s:5:"tango";s:14:"2co_privatekey";s:36:"4505C174-C075-11E3-98A7-D99C28100996";s:18:"2co_publishablekey";s:36:"4505BED6-C075-11E3-98A7-D99C28100996";s:8:"2co_type";s:4:"test";s:8:"currency";s:3:"USD";s:23:"save_processor_settings";s:21:"SaveProcessorSettings";}',
  'dol_subs_data_forwarding' => '',
  'dol_subs_config' => 'a:4:{s:10:"csrf_token";s:20:"GC/AYrRz.7M7ym?V9Gdm";s:13:"default_memID";s:2:"10";s:11:"require_mem";s:2:"on";s:18:"save_user_settings";s:13:"Save Settings";}',
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  'mbp_type' => '',
  'permalinks_module_membership' => 'on',
  'aqb_affiliate_turn_on' => '',
  'aqb_referral_turn_on' => 'on',
  'permalinks_module_aqb_affiliate' => 'on',
  'simple_messenger_update_time' => '3000',
  'modzzz_verify_hide_wall' => 'on',
  'sys_ps_enabled_group_36' => '',
  'modzzz_none_verify_seal' => 'unverified.png',
  'modzzz_verify_code_digits' => '6',
  'modzzz_verify_point_activated' => '',
  'modzzz_verify_show_none_verify' => 'on',
  'modzzz_verify_activated' => 'on',
  'permalinks_module_aqb_membership_vouchers' => 'on',
  'dbcs_online_members_show_friend' => 'on',
  'dbcs_online_members_show_gender' => 'on',
  'dbcs_online_members_show_couple' => '',
  'dbcs_online_members_show_age' => 'on',
  'dbcs_online_members_max_members' => '10',
  'dbcs_online_members_window_width' => '250',
  'dbcs_online_members_refresh_time' => '30',
  'sas_profile_info_last_id' => '2373',
  'sas_profile_info_check_thumbnail' => '',
  'sas_profile_info_enable' => '',
  'sas_profile_info_msg_count' => '2',
  'sas_profile_info_percentage' => '20',
  'aqb_aff_limit_commission' => '10.00',
  'aqb_aff_pp_api_user' => 'Kurt.Celis_api1.gmail.com',
  'aqb_aff_pp_api_pwd' => 'KFG8M6HHS8NZ33PC',
  'aqb_aff_pp_api_signature' => 'AUzYdHy5skDd2yWPr0j1Hh0O2SDBAByBXZ9Kx.EeQzgdVF3hrmuEfj3i',
  'aqb_aff_block_with_invitation_links' => '',
  'aqb_forced_matrix' => 'on',
  'aqb_matrix_width' => '0',
  'aqb_matrix_income' => '2',
  'aqb_matrix_spillover' => '',
  'aqb_matrix_timer' => '0',
  'sas_profile_info_permalinks' => 'on',
  'bxp_mob_howmanylastcontacted' => '5',
  'bxp_mob_howmanymessages' => '10',
  'bxp_mob_timeUpdate' => '3000',
  'bx_facebook_connect_api_key' => '495270503852897',
  'bx_facebook_connect_secret' => 'bfe75d8660f56eaa0c81086282ae205b',
  'bx_facebook_connect_permalinks' => 'on',
  'bx_facebook_connect_redirect_page' => 'member',
  'permalinks_blogs' => 'on',
  'category_auto_app_bx_blogs' => '',
  'bx_blogs_imagesize' => '800',
  'bx_blogs_bigthumbsize' => '340',
  'bx_blogs_thumbsize' => '110',
  'max_blog_preview' => '256',
  'bx_blogs_iconsize' => '45',
  'blogAutoApproval' => '',
  'blog_step' => '10',
  'bx_avatar_permalinks' => 'on',
  'bx_avatar_quality' => '100',
  'bx_avatar_site_avatars' => '',
  'max_blogs_on_home' => '10',
  'max_blogs_on_profile' => '10',
  'max_blogs_on_index' => '2',
  'permalinks_module_pageac' => 'on',
  'modzzz_verify_entries_perpage_donation' => '4',
  'modzzz_verify_entries_perpage_alldonation' => '5',
  'mp_googleanalytics_injection' => 'on',
  'mp_googleanalytics_tracking_id' => 'UA-41093826-1',
  'mp_googleanalytics_permalinks' => 'on',
)
Called script: /modules/boonex/blogs/blogs.php
Request parameters:
Array
(
    [action] => show_member_post
    [postUri] => Our-first-date
)