Error
Database query error
Query:
SELECT `id`, `user_id`, `data` FROM `sys_sessions` WHERE `id`='' LIMIT 1
Mysql error:
Table './heromatc_upgrademerged/sys_sessions' is marked as crashed and should be repaired
Found error in the file '/home/heromatc/public_html/inc/classes/BxDolSessionQuery.php' at line 28.
Called 'getRow' function with erroneous argument #0.

Debug backtrace:
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                            [PostCaption] => Long Distance Relationships
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In an era of global communications, world travel and ever-growing social platforms, long distance relationships will continue to become more and more common (and successful). At HEROmatchmaker.com we’re experts in long distance relationships, so consider these your insider tips, start prepping now!

  1. Know yourself. Are you needy? Dramatic? Selfish? Be honest, no one is really going to know the answer but you. Being real with yourself is key to any relationship but crucially important to one in which periods of distance and separation are going to exist. Relationships require give and take. If you are only a taker, you aren’t going to get very far. But alas, the good news for you is that it may be a perfect time for you to grow and challenge yourself a bit. If you’ve found someone that you want to be with, don’t short change yourself by passing up the challenge to make it work.
  2. Communicate. That may sound a bit facetious as communicating may be all you do for periods of time but a deeper communication than the “la de da” of daily life will ensure a real time connection and keep you both in check when it comes to the challenges you face as a couple in different locations. Challenges? Yes, sorry, brace yourself – there will be challenges. You will feel lonely at times. You will feel sad at times. But guess what – those moments pass and enduring them not only gives you opportunity for reflection and growth but makes the time you will have together all the more appreciated and exciting.
  3. Stay Busy. Jobs, hobbies, parties, trips, friends – those all keep us busy. Don’t feel sorry for yourself when you’re apart. Pity parties don’t help anyone. Use periods of separation to try out new skills or a new work out routine. Take on an extra project at school or work, something to occupy your mind and time.
  4. Get Touched. All over. And enjoy it. Of course, in a way that’s healthy and supportive of a long distance relationship. How? Get a massage. A common reason for the demise of long distance relationships is the lack of physical intimacy and closeness. It gets the better of either one or both individuals, someone cheats and things get way more complicated. Humans crave touch and physical contact, so when the one you love is across the ocean or states away, rerouting primal instincts towards something benign that can help with stress reduction and overall physical and mental health, I say go for it.
  5. Have Fun. Are you a competitive couple? Challenge your significant other to a virtual game of Words with Friends. Are you the adventurous type? Create a scavenger hunt with encrypted notes that pop up via text every day, leading them to a present you hid the last time you visited. When it’s all said and done, talking, texting, and Skyping can only take up so much time. Incorporating any type of fun, engaging activities for you both the bond over, laugh about and facilitate staying in touch are important.
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In an era of global communications, world travel and ever-growing social platforms, long distance relationships will continue to become more and more common (and successful). At HEROmatchmaker.com we’re experts in long distance relationships, so consider these your insider tips, start prepping now!

  1. Know yourself. Are you needy? Dramatic? Selfish? Be honest, no one is really going to know the answer but you. Being real with yourself is key to any relationship but crucially important to one in which periods of distance and separation are going to exist. Relationships require give and take. If you are only a taker, you aren’t going to get very far. But alas, the good news for you is that it may be a perfect time for you to grow and challenge yourself a bit. If you’ve found someone that you want to be with, don’t short change yourself by passing up the challenge to make it work.
  2. Communicate. That may sound a bit facetious as communicating may be all you do for periods of time but a deeper communication than the “la de da” of daily life will ensure a real time connection and keep you both in check when it comes to the challenges you face as a couple in different locations. Challenges? Yes, sorry, brace yourself – there will be challenges. You will feel lonely at times. You will feel sad at times. But guess what – those moments pass and enduring them not only gives you opportunity for reflection and growth but makes the time you will have together all the more appreciated and exciting.
  3. Stay Busy. Jobs, hobbies, parties, trips, friends – those all keep us busy. Don’t feel sorry for yourself when you’re apart. Pity parties don’t help anyone. Use periods of separation to try out new skills or a new work out routine. Take on an extra project at school or work, something to occupy your mind and time.
  4. Get Touched. All over. And enjoy it. Of course, in a way that’s healthy and supportive of a long distance relationship. How? Get a massage. A common reason for the demise of long distance relationships is the lack of physical intimacy and closeness. It gets the better of either one or both individuals, someone cheats and things get way more complicated. Humans crave touch and physical contact, so when the one you love is across the ocean or states away, rerouting primal instincts towards something benign that can help with stress reduction and overall physical and mental health, I say go for it.
  5. Have Fun. Are you a competitive couple? Challenge your significant other to a virtual game of Words with Friends. Are you the adventurous type? Create a scavenger hunt with encrypted notes that pop up via text every day, leading them to a present you hid the last time you visited. When it’s all said and done, talking, texting, and Skyping can only take up so much time. Incorporating any type of fun, engaging activities for you both the bond over, laugh about and facilitate staying in touch are important.
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Long Distance Relationships

In an era of global communications, world travel and ever-growing social platforms, long distance relationships will continue to become more and more common (and successful). At HEROmatchmaker.com we’re experts in long distance relationships, so consider these your insider tips, start prepping now!

  1. Know yourself. Are you needy? Dramatic? Selfish? Be honest, no one is really going to know the answer but you. Being real with yourself is key to any relationship but crucially important to one in which periods of distance and separation are going to exist. Relationships require give and take. If you are only a taker, you aren’t going to get very far. But alas, the good news for you is that it may be a perfect time for you to grow and challenge yourself a bit. If you’ve found someone that you want to be with, don’t short change yourself by passing up the challenge to make it work.
  2. Communicate. That may sound a bit facetious as communicating may be all you do for periods of time but a deeper communication than the “la de da” of daily life will ensure a real time connection and keep you both in check when it comes to the challenges you face as a couple in different locations. Challenges? Yes, sorry, brace yourself – there will be challenges. You will feel lonely at times. You will feel sad at times. But guess what – those moments pass and enduring them not only gives you opportunity for reflection and growth but makes the time you will have together all the more appreciated and exciting.
  3. Stay Busy. Jobs, hobbies, parties, trips, friends – those all keep us busy. Don’t feel sorry for yourself when you’re apart. Pity parties don’t help anyone. Use periods of separation to try out new skills or a new work out routine. Take on an extra project at school or work, something to occupy your mind and time.
  4. Get Touched. All over. And enjoy it. Of course, in a way that’s healthy and supportive of a long distance relationship. How? Get a massage. A common reason for the demise of long distance relationships is the lack of physical intimacy and closeness. It gets the better of either one or both individuals, someone cheats and things get way more complicated. Humans crave touch and physical contact, so when the one you love is across the ocean or states away, rerouting primal instincts towards something benign that can help with stress reduction and overall physical and mental health, I say go for it.
  5. Have Fun. Are you a competitive couple? Challenge your significant other to a virtual game of Words with Friends. Are you the adventurous type? Create a scavenger hunt with encrypted notes that pop up via text every day, leading them to a present you hid the last time you visited. When it’s all said and done, talking, texting, and Skyping can only take up so much time. Incorporating any type of fun, engaging activities for you both the bond over, laugh about and facilitate staying in touch are important.
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In an era of global communications, world travel and ever-growing social platforms, long distance relationships will continue to become more and more common (and successful). At HEROmatchmaker.com we’re experts in long distance relationships, so consider these your insider tips, start prepping now!

  1. Know yourself. Are you needy? Dramatic? Selfish? Be honest, no one is really going to know the answer but you. Being real with yourself is key to any relationship but crucially important to one in which periods of distance and separation are going to exist. Relationships require give and take. If you are only a taker, you aren’t going to get very far. But alas, the good news for you is that it may be a perfect time for you to grow and challenge yourself a bit. If you’ve found someone that you want to be with, don’t short change yourself by passing up the challenge to make it work.
  2. Communicate. That may sound a bit facetious as communicating may be all you do for periods of time but a deeper communication than the “la de da” of daily life will ensure a real time connection and keep you both in check when it comes to the challenges you face as a couple in different locations. Challenges? Yes, sorry, brace yourself – there will be challenges. You will feel lonely at times. You will feel sad at times. But guess what – those moments pass and enduring them not only gives you opportunity for reflection and growth but makes the time you will have together all the more appreciated and exciting.
  3. Stay Busy. Jobs, hobbies, parties, trips, friends – those all keep us busy. Don’t feel sorry for yourself when you’re apart. Pity parties don’t help anyone. Use periods of separation to try out new skills or a new work out routine. Take on an extra project at school or work, something to occupy your mind and time.
  4. Get Touched. All over. And enjoy it. Of course, in a way that’s healthy and supportive of a long distance relationship. How? Get a massage. A common reason for the demise of long distance relationships is the lack of physical intimacy and closeness. It gets the better of either one or both individuals, someone cheats and things get way more complicated. Humans crave touch and physical contact, so when the one you love is across the ocean or states away, rerouting primal instincts towards something benign that can help with stress reduction and overall physical and mental health, I say go for it.
  5. Have Fun. Are you a competitive couple? Challenge your significant other to a virtual game of Words with Friends. Are you the adventurous type? Create a scavenger hunt with encrypted notes that pop up via text every day, leading them to a present you hid the last time you visited. When it’s all said and done, talking, texting, and Skyping can only take up so much time. Incorporating any type of fun, engaging activities for you both the bond over, laugh about and facilitate staying in touch are important.
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Long Distance Relationships

In an era of global communications, world travel and ever-growing social platforms, long distance relationships will continue to become more and more common (and successful). At HEROmatchmaker.com we’re experts in long distance relationships, so consider these your insider tips, start prepping now!

  1. Know yourself. Are you needy? Dramatic? Selfish? Be honest, no one is really going to know the answer but you. Being real with yourself is key to any relationship but crucially important to one in which periods of distance and separation are going to exist. Relationships require give and take. If you are only a taker, you aren’t going to get very far. But alas, the good news for you is that it may be a perfect time for you to grow and challenge yourself a bit. If you’ve found someone that you want to be with, don’t short change yourself by passing up the challenge to make it work.
  2. Communicate. That may sound a bit facetious as communicating may be all you do for periods of time but a deeper communication than the “la de da” of daily life will ensure a real time connection and keep you both in check when it comes to the challenges you face as a couple in different locations. Challenges? Yes, sorry, brace yourself – there will be challenges. You will feel lonely at times. You will feel sad at times. But guess what – those moments pass and enduring them not only gives you opportunity for reflection and growth but makes the time you will have together all the more appreciated and exciting.
  3. Stay Busy. Jobs, hobbies, parties, trips, friends – those all keep us busy. Don’t feel sorry for yourself when you’re apart. Pity parties don’t help anyone. Use periods of separation to try out new skills or a new work out routine. Take on an extra project at school or work, something to occupy your mind and time.
  4. Get Touched. All over. And enjoy it. Of course, in a way that’s healthy and supportive of a long distance relationship. How? Get a massage. A common reason for the demise of long distance relationships is the lack of physical intimacy and closeness. It gets the better of either one or both individuals, someone cheats and things get way more complicated. Humans crave touch and physical contact, so when the one you love is across the ocean or states away, rerouting primal instincts towards something benign that can help with stress reduction and overall physical and mental health, I say go for it.
  5. Have Fun. Are you a competitive couple? Challenge your significant other to a virtual game of Words with Friends. Are you the adventurous type? Create a scavenger hunt with encrypted notes that pop up via text every day, leading them to a present you hid the last time you visited. When it’s all said and done, talking, texting, and Skyping can only take up so much time. Incorporating any type of fun, engaging activities for you both the bond over, laugh about and facilitate staying in touch are important.
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In an era of global communications, world travel and ever-growing social platforms, long distance relationships will continue to become more and more common (and successful). At HEROmatchmaker.com we’re experts in long distance relationships, so consider these your insider tips, start prepping now!

  1. Know yourself. Are you needy? Dramatic? Selfish? Be honest, no one is really going to know the answer but you. Being real with yourself is key to any relationship but crucially important to one in which periods of distance and separation are going to exist. Relationships require give and take. If you are only a taker, you aren’t going to get very far. But alas, the good news for you is that it may be a perfect time for you to grow and challenge yourself a bit. If you’ve found someone that you want to be with, don’t short change yourself by passing up the challenge to make it work.
  2. Communicate. That may sound a bit facetious as communicating may be all you do for periods of time but a deeper communication than the “la de da” of daily life will ensure a real time connection and keep you both in check when it comes to the challenges you face as a couple in different locations. Challenges? Yes, sorry, brace yourself – there will be challenges. You will feel lonely at times. You will feel sad at times. But guess what – those moments pass and enduring them not only gives you opportunity for reflection and growth but makes the time you will have together all the more appreciated and exciting.
  3. Stay Busy. Jobs, hobbies, parties, trips, friends – those all keep us busy. Don’t feel sorry for yourself when you’re apart. Pity parties don’t help anyone. Use periods of separation to try out new skills or a new work out routine. Take on an extra project at school or work, something to occupy your mind and time.
  4. Get Touched. All over. And enjoy it. Of course, in a way that’s healthy and supportive of a long distance relationship. How? Get a massage. A common reason for the demise of long distance relationships is the lack of physical intimacy and closeness. It gets the better of either one or both individuals, someone cheats and things get way more complicated. Humans crave touch and physical contact, so when the one you love is across the ocean or states away, rerouting primal instincts towards something benign that can help with stress reduction and overall physical and mental health, I say go for it.
  5. Have Fun. Are you a competitive couple? Challenge your significant other to a virtual game of Words with Friends. Are you the adventurous type? Create a scavenger hunt with encrypted notes that pop up via text every day, leading them to a present you hid the last time you visited. When it’s all said and done, talking, texting, and Skyping can only take up so much time. Incorporating any type of fun, engaging activities for you both the bond over, laugh about and facilitate staying in touch are important.
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Long Distance Relationships

In an era of global communications, world travel and ever-growing social platforms, long distance relationships will continue to become more and more common (and successful). At HEROmatchmaker.com we’re experts in long distance relationships, so consider these your insider tips, start prepping now!

  1. Know yourself. Are you needy? Dramatic? Selfish? Be honest, no one is really going to know the answer but you. Being real with yourself is key to any relationship but crucially important to one in which periods of distance and separation are going to exist. Relationships require give and take. If you are only a taker, you aren’t going to get very far. But alas, the good news for you is that it may be a perfect time for you to grow and challenge yourself a bit. If you’ve found someone that you want to be with, don’t short change yourself by passing up the challenge to make it work.
  2. Communicate. That may sound a bit facetious as communicating may be all you do for periods of time but a deeper communication than the “la de da” of daily life will ensure a real time connection and keep you both in check when it comes to the challenges you face as a couple in different locations. Challenges? Yes, sorry, brace yourself – there will be challenges. You will feel lonely at times. You will feel sad at times. But guess what – those moments pass and enduring them not only gives you opportunity for reflection and growth but makes the time you will have together all the more appreciated and exciting.
  3. Stay Busy. Jobs, hobbies, parties, trips, friends – those all keep us busy. Don’t feel sorry for yourself when you’re apart. Pity parties don’t help anyone. Use periods of separation to try out new skills or a new work out routine. Take on an extra project at school or work, something to occupy your mind and time.
  4. Get Touched. All over. And enjoy it. Of course, in a way that’s healthy and supportive of a long distance relationship. How? Get a massage. A common reason for the demise of long distance relationships is the lack of physical intimacy and closeness. It gets the better of either one or both individuals, someone cheats and things get way more complicated. Humans crave touch and physical contact, so when the one you love is across the ocean or states away, rerouting primal instincts towards something benign that can help with stress reduction and overall physical and mental health, I say go for it.
  5. Have Fun. Are you a competitive couple? Challenge your significant other to a virtual game of Words with Friends. Are you the adventurous type? Create a scavenger hunt with encrypted notes that pop up via text every day, leading them to a present you hid the last time you visited. When it’s all said and done, talking, texting, and Skyping can only take up so much time. Incorporating any type of fun, engaging activities for you both the bond over, laugh about and facilitate staying in touch are important.
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In an era of global communications, world travel and ever-growing social platforms, long distance relationships will continue to become more and more common (and successful). At HEROmatchmaker.com we’re experts in long distance relationships, so consider these your insider tips, start prepping now!

  1. Know yourself. Are you needy? Dramatic? Selfish? Be honest, no one is really going to know the answer but you. Being real with yourself is key to any relationship but crucially important to one in which periods of distance and separation are going to exist. Relationships require give and take. If you are only a taker, you aren’t going to get very far. But alas, the good news for you is that it may be a perfect time for you to grow and challenge yourself a bit. If you’ve found someone that you want to be with, don’t short change yourself by passing up the challenge to make it work.
  2. Communicate. That may sound a bit facetious as communicating may be all you do for periods of time but a deeper communication than the “la de da” of daily life will ensure a real time connection and keep you both in check when it comes to the challenges you face as a couple in different locations. Challenges? Yes, sorry, brace yourself – there will be challenges. You will feel lonely at times. You will feel sad at times. But guess what – those moments pass and enduring them not only gives you opportunity for reflection and growth but makes the time you will have together all the more appreciated and exciting.
  3. Stay Busy. Jobs, hobbies, parties, trips, friends – those all keep us busy. Don’t feel sorry for yourself when you’re apart. Pity parties don’t help anyone. Use periods of separation to try out new skills or a new work out routine. Take on an extra project at school or work, something to occupy your mind and time.
  4. Get Touched. All over. And enjoy it. Of course, in a way that’s healthy and supportive of a long distance relationship. How? Get a massage. A common reason for the demise of long distance relationships is the lack of physical intimacy and closeness. It gets the better of either one or both individuals, someone cheats and things get way more complicated. Humans crave touch and physical contact, so when the one you love is across the ocean or states away, rerouting primal instincts towards something benign that can help with stress reduction and overall physical and mental health, I say go for it.
  5. Have Fun. Are you a competitive couple? Challenge your significant other to a virtual game of Words with Friends. Are you the adventurous type? Create a scavenger hunt with encrypted notes that pop up via text every day, leading them to a present you hid the last time you visited. When it’s all said and done, talking, texting, and Skyping can only take up so much time. Incorporating any type of fun, engaging activities for you both the bond over, laugh about and facilitate staying in touch are important.
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Long Distance Relationships

In an era of global communications, world travel and ever-growing social platforms, long distance relationships will continue to become more and more common (and successful). At HEROmatchmaker.com we’re experts in long distance relationships, so consider these your insider tips, start prepping now!

  1. Know yourself. Are you needy? Dramatic? Selfish? Be honest, no one is really going to know the answer but you. Being real with yourself is key to any relationship but crucially important to one in which periods of distance and separation are going to exist. Relationships require give and take. If you are only a taker, you aren’t going to get very far. But alas, the good news for you is that it may be a perfect time for you to grow and challenge yourself a bit. If you’ve found someone that you want to be with, don’t short change yourself by passing up the challenge to make it work.
  2. Communicate. That may sound a bit facetious as communicating may be all you do for periods of time but a deeper communication than the “la de da” of daily life will ensure a real time connection and keep you both in check when it comes to the challenges you face as a couple in different locations. Challenges? Yes, sorry, brace yourself – there will be challenges. You will feel lonely at times. You will feel sad at times. But guess what – those moments pass and enduring them not only gives you opportunity for reflection and growth but makes the time you will have together all the more appreciated and exciting.
  3. Stay Busy. Jobs, hobbies, parties, trips, friends – those all keep us busy. Don’t feel sorry for yourself when you’re apart. Pity parties don’t help anyone. Use periods of separation to try out new skills or a new work out routine. Take on an extra project at school or work, something to occupy your mind and time.
  4. Get Touched. All over. And enjoy it. Of course, in a way that’s healthy and supportive of a long distance relationship. How? Get a massage. A common reason for the demise of long distance relationships is the lack of physical intimacy and closeness. It gets the better of either one or both individuals, someone cheats and things get way more complicated. Humans crave touch and physical contact, so when the one you love is across the ocean or states away, rerouting primal instincts towards something benign that can help with stress reduction and overall physical and mental health, I say go for it.
  5. Have Fun. Are you a competitive couple? Challenge your significant other to a virtual game of Words with Friends. Are you the adventurous type? Create a scavenger hunt with encrypted notes that pop up via text every day, leading them to a present you hid the last time you visited. When it’s all said and done, talking, texting, and Skyping can only take up so much time. Incorporating any type of fun, engaging activities for you both the bond over, laugh about and facilitate staying in touch are important.
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In an era of global communications, world travel and ever-growing social platforms, long distance relationships will continue to become more and more common (and successful). At HEROmatchmaker.com we’re experts in long distance relationships, so consider these your insider tips, start prepping now!

  1. Know yourself. Are you needy? Dramatic? Selfish? Be honest, no one is really going to know the answer but you. Being real with yourself is key to any relationship but crucially important to one in which periods of distance and separation are going to exist. Relationships require give and take. If you are only a taker, you aren’t going to get very far. But alas, the good news for you is that it may be a perfect time for you to grow and challenge yourself a bit. If you’ve found someone that you want to be with, don’t short change yourself by passing up the challenge to make it work.
  2. Communicate. That may sound a bit facetious as communicating may be all you do for periods of time but a deeper communication than the “la de da” of daily life will ensure a real time connection and keep you both in check when it comes to the challenges you face as a couple in different locations. Challenges? Yes, sorry, brace yourself – there will be challenges. You will feel lonely at times. You will feel sad at times. But guess what – those moments pass and enduring them not only gives you opportunity for reflection and growth but makes the time you will have together all the more appreciated and exciting.
  3. Stay Busy. Jobs, hobbies, parties, trips, friends – those all keep us busy. Don’t feel sorry for yourself when you’re apart. Pity parties don’t help anyone. Use periods of separation to try out new skills or a new work out routine. Take on an extra project at school or work, something to occupy your mind and time.
  4. Get Touched. All over. And enjoy it. Of course, in a way that’s healthy and supportive of a long distance relationship. How? Get a massage. A common reason for the demise of long distance relationships is the lack of physical intimacy and closeness. It gets the better of either one or both individuals, someone cheats and things get way more complicated. Humans crave touch and physical contact, so when the one you love is across the ocean or states away, rerouting primal instincts towards something benign that can help with stress reduction and overall physical and mental health, I say go for it.
  5. Have Fun. Are you a competitive couple? Challenge your significant other to a virtual game of Words with Friends. Are you the adventurous type? Create a scavenger hunt with encrypted notes that pop up via text every day, leading them to a present you hid the last time you visited. When it’s all said and done, talking, texting, and Skyping can only take up so much time. Incorporating any type of fun, engaging activities for you both the bond over, laugh about and facilitate staying in touch are important.
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Long Distance Relationships

In an era of global communications, world travel and ever-growing social platforms, long distance relationships will continue to become more and more common (and successful). At HEROmatchmaker.com we’re experts in long distance relationships, so consider these your insider tips, start prepping now!

  1. Know yourself. Are you needy? Dramatic? Selfish? Be honest, no one is really going to know the answer but you. Being real with yourself is key to any relationship but crucially important to one in which periods of distance and separation are going to exist. Relationships require give and take. If you are only a taker, you aren’t going to get very far. But alas, the good news for you is that it may be a perfect time for you to grow and challenge yourself a bit. If you’ve found someone that you want to be with, don’t short change yourself by passing up the challenge to make it work.
  2. Communicate. That may sound a bit facetious as communicating may be all you do for periods of time but a deeper communication than the “la de da” of daily life will ensure a real time connection and keep you both in check when it comes to the challenges you face as a couple in different locations. Challenges? Yes, sorry, brace yourself – there will be challenges. You will feel lonely at times. You will feel sad at times. But guess what – those moments pass and enduring them not only gives you opportunity for reflection and growth but makes the time you will have together all the more appreciated and exciting.
  3. Stay Busy. Jobs, hobbies, parties, trips, friends – those all keep us busy. Don’t feel sorry for yourself when you’re apart. Pity parties don’t help anyone. Use periods of separation to try out new skills or a new work out routine. Take on an extra project at school or work, something to occupy your mind and time.
  4. Get Touched. All over. And enjoy it. Of course, in a way that’s healthy and supportive of a long distance relationship. How? Get a massage. A common reason for the demise of long distance relationships is the lack of physical intimacy and closeness. It gets the better of either one or both individuals, someone cheats and things get way more complicated. Humans crave touch and physical contact, so when the one you love is across the ocean or states away, rerouting primal instincts towards something benign that can help with stress reduction and overall physical and mental health, I say go for it.
  5. Have Fun. Are you a competitive couple? Challenge your significant other to a virtual game of Words with Friends. Are you the adventurous type? Create a scavenger hunt with encrypted notes that pop up via text every day, leading them to a present you hid the last time you visited. When it’s all said and done, talking, texting, and Skyping can only take up so much time. Incorporating any type of fun, engaging activities for you both the bond over, laugh about and facilitate staying in touch are important.
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In an era of global communications, world travel and ever-growing social platforms, long distance relationships will continue to become more and more common (and successful). At HEROmatchmaker.com we’re experts in long distance relationships, so consider these your insider tips, start prepping now!

  1. Know yourself. Are you needy? Dramatic? Selfish? Be honest, no one is really going to know the answer but you. Being real with yourself is key to any relationship but crucially important to one in which periods of distance and separation are going to exist. Relationships require give and take. If you are only a taker, you aren’t going to get very far. But alas, the good news for you is that it may be a perfect time for you to grow and challenge yourself a bit. If you’ve found someone that you want to be with, don’t short change yourself by passing up the challenge to make it work.
  2. Communicate. That may sound a bit facetious as communicating may be all you do for periods of time but a deeper communication than the “la de da” of daily life will ensure a real time connection and keep you both in check when it comes to the challenges you face as a couple in different locations. Challenges? Yes, sorry, brace yourself – there will be challenges. You will feel lonely at times. You will feel sad at times. But guess what – those moments pass and enduring them not only gives you opportunity for reflection and growth but makes the time you will have together all the more appreciated and exciting.
  3. Stay Busy. Jobs, hobbies, parties, trips, friends – those all keep us busy. Don’t feel sorry for yourself when you’re apart. Pity parties don’t help anyone. Use periods of separation to try out new skills or a new work out routine. Take on an extra project at school or work, something to occupy your mind and time.
  4. Get Touched. All over. And enjoy it. Of course, in a way that’s healthy and supportive of a long distance relationship. How? Get a massage. A common reason for the demise of long distance relationships is the lack of physical intimacy and closeness. It gets the better of either one or both individuals, someone cheats and things get way more complicated. Humans crave touch and physical contact, so when the one you love is across the ocean or states away, rerouting primal instincts towards something benign that can help with stress reduction and overall physical and mental health, I say go for it.
  5. Have Fun. Are you a competitive couple? Challenge your significant other to a virtual game of Words with Friends. Are you the adventurous type? Create a scavenger hunt with encrypted notes that pop up via text every day, leading them to a present you hid the last time you visited. When it’s all said and done, talking, texting, and Skyping can only take up so much time. Incorporating any type of fun, engaging activities for you both the bond over, laugh about and facilitate staying in touch are important.
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In an era of global communications, world travel and ever-growing social platforms, long distance relationships will continue to become more and more common (and successful). At HEROmatchmaker.com we’re experts in long distance relationships, so consider these your insider tips, start prepping now!

  1. Know yourself. Are you needy? Dramatic? Selfish? Be honest, no one is really going to know the answer but you. Being real with yourself is key to any relationship but crucially important to one in which periods of distance and separation are going to exist. Relationships require give and take. If you are only a taker, you aren’t going to get very far. But alas, the good news for you is that it may be a perfect time for you to grow and challenge yourself a bit. If you’ve found someone that you want to be with, don’t short change yourself by passing up the challenge to make it work.
  2. Communicate. That may sound a bit facetious as communicating may be all you do for periods of time but a deeper communication than the “la de da” of daily life will ensure a real time connection and keep you both in check when it comes to the challenges you face as a couple in different locations. Challenges? Yes, sorry, brace yourself – there will be challenges. You will feel lonely at times. You will feel sad at times. But guess what – those moments pass and enduring them not only gives you opportunity for reflection and growth but makes the time you will have together all the more appreciated and exciting.
  3. Stay Busy. Jobs, hobbies, parties, trips, friends – those all keep us busy. Don’t feel sorry for yourself when you’re apart. Pity parties don’t help anyone. Use periods of separation to try out new skills or a new work out routine. Take on an extra project at school or work, something to occupy your mind and time.
  4. Get Touched. All over. And enjoy it. Of course, in a way that’s healthy and supportive of a long distance relationship. How? Get a massage. A common reason for the demise of long distance relationships is the lack of physical intimacy and closeness. It gets the better of either one or both individuals, someone cheats and things get way more complicated. Humans crave touch and physical contact, so when the one you love is across the ocean or states away, rerouting primal instincts towards something benign that can help with stress reduction and overall physical and mental health, I say go for it.
  5. Have Fun. Are you a competitive couple? Challenge your significant other to a virtual game of Words with Friends. Are you the adventurous type? Create a scavenger hunt with encrypted notes that pop up via text every day, leading them to a present you hid the last time you visited. When it’s all said and done, talking, texting, and Skyping can only take up so much time. Incorporating any type of fun, engaging activities for you both the bond over, laugh about and facilitate staying in touch are important.
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  'modzzz_rank_entry_icoheight' => '120',
  'modzzz_rank_permalinks' => 'on',
  'modzzz_rank_activated' => 'on',
  'sys_ps_enabled_group_0' => '',
  'modzzz_rank_entry_icowidth' => '120',
  'modzzz_rank_entry_imageheight' => '225',
  'modzzz_rank_entry_imagewidth' => '225',
  'modzzz_rank_entries_perpage_browse' => '50',
  'bx_facebook_connect_auto_friends' => 'on',
  'modzzz_rank_code_digits' => '6',
  'modzzz_rank_point_activated' => '',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_dcnty' => 'US',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_use_geo_ip' => 'on',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_import_albums' => 'on',
  'bx_zip_permalinks' => 'on',
  'bx_zip_enabled' => 'on',
  'bx_zip_mode' => 'Geonames',
  'bx_photos_activation' => '',
  'category_auto_app_bx_photos' => '',
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  'bx_photos_number_index' => '8',
  'bx_photos_number_top' => '8',
  'bx_photos_number_user' => '4',
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  'bx_photos_number_previous_rated' => '4',
  'bx_photos_number_browse' => '8',
  'bx_photos_number_albums_browse' => '8',
  'bx_photos_number_albums_home' => '8',
  'bx_photos_icon_width' => '32',
  'bx_photos_icon_height' => '32',
  'bx_photos_thumb_width' => '64',
  'bx_photos_thumb_height' => '64',
  'bx_photos_file_width' => '750',
  'bx_photos_file_height' => '750',
  'bx_photos_browse_width' => '140',
  'bx_photos_browse_height' => '140',
  'bx_photos_flickr_photo_api' => '',
  'bx_photos_number_albums_public_objects' => '4',
  'bx_photos_rss_feed_on' => 'on',
  'bx_photos_uploader_switcher' => 'regular,record',
  'bx_photos_permalinks' => 'on',
  'permalinks_module_chat' => 'on',
  'bx_gsearch_permalinks' => 'on',
  'bx_gsearch_block_tabbed' => 'on',
  'bx_gsearch_block_images' => 'on',
  'bx_gsearch_separate_tabbed' => 'on',
  'bx_gsearch_separate_images' => 'on',
  'pmt_default_currency_code' => 'USD',
  'pmt_default_currency_sign' => '&#36;',
  'permalinks_module_payment' => 'on',
  'simple_messenger_blink_counter' => '5',
  'bx_simple_messenger_permalinks' => 'on',
  'simple_messenger_procces_smiles' => 'on',
  'simple_messenger_visible_messages' => '25',
  'simple_messenger_allowed_chatbox' => '3',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_api_key' => '495270503852897',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_secret_key' => 'bfe75d8660f56eaa0c81086282ae205b',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_option1' => 'FirstName',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_option2' => 'FirstName_LastName',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_option3' => 'LastName',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_allow_spaces' => '',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_copy_photo' => 'on',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_autofriend_list' => '',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_facebook_friends' => 'on',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_das' => 'Use Dolphins Settings',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_prompt_pass' => 'on',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_prompt_nick' => 'on',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_prompt_email' => '',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_redirect1' => 'pedit.php?ID={memberid}',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_use_join_form' => 'on',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_set_status_active_oc' => 'on',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_match_email' => 'on',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_nag_time' => '24',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_redirect2' => 'member.php',
  'pmt_site_admin' => '8',
  'dbcs_facebook_connect_permalinks' => 'on',
  'bx_spy_keep_rows_days' => '30',
  'bx_spy_update_time' => '10000',
  'bx_spy_toggle_up' => '1500',
  'bx_spy_toggle_down' => '1500',
  'bx_spy_per_page' => '10',
  'bx_spy_guest_allow' => 'on',
  'bx_spy_permalinks' => 'on',
  'category_auto_app_bx_videos' => 'on',
  'bx_videos_allowed_exts' => 'avi flv mpg wmv mp4 m4v mov divx xvid',
  'bx_videos_max_file_size' => '100',
  'bx_videos_profile_album_name' => '{nickname}\'s videos',
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  'bx_videos_number_all' => '12',
  'bx_videos_number_index' => '8',
  'bx_videos_number_top' => '4',
  'bx_videos_number_user' => '4',
  'bx_videos_number_related' => '4',
  'bx_videos_number_previous_rated' => '4',
  'bx_videos_number_browse' => '8',
  'bx_videos_number_albums_browse' => '8',
  'bx_videos_number_albums_home' => '4',
  'bx_videos_file_width' => '600',
  'bx_videos_file_height' => '600',
  'bx_videos_browse_width' => '140',
  'bx_videos_browse_height' => '102',
  'bx_videos_uploader_switcher' => 'regular,record,embed',
  'bx_videos_permalinks' => 'on',
  'aqb_affiliate_enable_points' => '',
  'modzzz_verify_entry_icowidth' => '120',
  'modzzz_verify_entry_icoheight' => '120',
  'modzzz_verify_entry_imageheight' => '225',
  'modzzz_verify_entries_perpage_browse' => '50',
  'modzzz_verify_seal' => 'verified.jpg',
  'modzzz_verify_entry_imagewidth' => '225',
  'aqb_fb_app_secret' => '631a4e1087be7bc1410964407b8a8f69',
  'aqb_fb_aff_info_upgrade' => '-1',
  'aqb_fb_app_id' => '460183027387047',
  'aqb_aff_per_page_invited_profile' => '6',
  'aqb_aff_enable_invited_profile' => 'on',
  'aqb_aff_per_page_ref_index' => '6',
  'aqb_aff_enable_ref_index' => '',
  'aqb_aff_use_queue' => 'on',
  'aqb_aff_maximum_number_of_emails_symbols' => '300',
  'aqb_aff_maximum_number_of_send_emails' => '25',
  'aqb_aff_allow_their_message' => 'on',
  'aqb_aff_allow_sent_invitations' => 'on',
  'aqb_aff_perpage_browse_history' => '15',
  'aqb_aff_perpage_browse_referrals' => '20',
  'aqb_aff_unique_hsitory_days' => '30',
  'aqb_affiliate_cookie_days' => '30',
  'aqb_aff_make_invite_member_friends' => 'on',
  'aqb_affiliate_referral_link' => 'http://heromatchmaker.com/',
  'permalinks_module_aqb_fb' => 'on',
  'aqb_fb_num_friends_account_page' => '25',
  'aqb_fb_message_title' => 'Find yours today!',
  'aqb_fb_message_text' => 'Dedicated to those in service! Join us today and help us match those who serve with those who serve, and anyone else that wants to be matched with a hero.',
  'aqb_fb_message_picture' => 'http://heromatchmaker.com/media/images/HEROheart.png',
  'aqb_fb_use_aff_system' => 'on',
  'dol_subs_permalinks' => 'on',
  'dol_subs_processors' => 'a:11:{s:10:"csrf_token";s:20:"kUjCF!XHN&sLL.K?vEQf";s:13:"paypal_active";s:2:"on";s:14:"paypal_account";s:23:"Kurt@HEROmatchmaker.com";s:11:"paypal_type";s:4:"live";s:11:"2co_account";s:9:"901248207";s:10:"2co_secret";s:5:"tango";s:14:"2co_privatekey";s:36:"4505C174-C075-11E3-98A7-D99C28100996";s:18:"2co_publishablekey";s:36:"4505BED6-C075-11E3-98A7-D99C28100996";s:8:"2co_type";s:4:"test";s:8:"currency";s:3:"USD";s:23:"save_processor_settings";s:21:"SaveProcessorSettings";}',
  'dol_subs_data_forwarding' => '',
  'dol_subs_config' => 'a:4:{s:10:"csrf_token";s:20:"GC/AYrRz.7M7ym?V9Gdm";s:13:"default_memID";s:2:"10";s:11:"require_mem";s:2:"on";s:18:"save_user_settings";s:13:"Save Settings";}',
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  'mbp_type' => '',
  'permalinks_module_membership' => 'on',
  'aqb_affiliate_turn_on' => '',
  'aqb_referral_turn_on' => 'on',
  'permalinks_module_aqb_affiliate' => 'on',
  'simple_messenger_update_time' => '3000',
  'modzzz_verify_hide_wall' => 'on',
  'sys_ps_enabled_group_36' => '',
  'modzzz_none_verify_seal' => 'unverified.png',
  'modzzz_verify_code_digits' => '6',
  'modzzz_verify_point_activated' => '',
  'modzzz_verify_show_none_verify' => 'on',
  'modzzz_verify_activated' => 'on',
  'permalinks_module_aqb_membership_vouchers' => 'on',
  'dbcs_online_members_show_friend' => 'on',
  'dbcs_online_members_show_gender' => 'on',
  'dbcs_online_members_show_couple' => '',
  'dbcs_online_members_show_age' => 'on',
  'dbcs_online_members_max_members' => '10',
  'dbcs_online_members_window_width' => '250',
  'dbcs_online_members_refresh_time' => '30',
  'sas_profile_info_last_id' => '2373',
  'sas_profile_info_check_thumbnail' => '',
  'sas_profile_info_enable' => '',
  'sas_profile_info_msg_count' => '2',
  'sas_profile_info_percentage' => '20',
  'aqb_aff_limit_commission' => '10.00',
  'aqb_aff_pp_api_user' => 'Kurt.Celis_api1.gmail.com',
  'aqb_aff_pp_api_pwd' => 'KFG8M6HHS8NZ33PC',
  'aqb_aff_pp_api_signature' => 'AUzYdHy5skDd2yWPr0j1Hh0O2SDBAByBXZ9Kx.EeQzgdVF3hrmuEfj3i',
  'aqb_aff_block_with_invitation_links' => '',
  'aqb_forced_matrix' => 'on',
  'aqb_matrix_width' => '0',
  'aqb_matrix_income' => '2',
  'aqb_matrix_spillover' => '',
  'aqb_matrix_timer' => '0',
  'sas_profile_info_permalinks' => 'on',
  'bxp_mob_howmanylastcontacted' => '5',
  'bxp_mob_howmanymessages' => '10',
  'bxp_mob_timeUpdate' => '3000',
  'bx_facebook_connect_api_key' => '495270503852897',
  'bx_facebook_connect_secret' => 'bfe75d8660f56eaa0c81086282ae205b',
  'bx_facebook_connect_permalinks' => 'on',
  'bx_facebook_connect_redirect_page' => 'member',
  'permalinks_blogs' => 'on',
  'category_auto_app_bx_blogs' => '',
  'bx_blogs_imagesize' => '800',
  'bx_blogs_bigthumbsize' => '340',
  'bx_blogs_thumbsize' => '110',
  'max_blog_preview' => '256',
  'bx_blogs_iconsize' => '45',
  'blogAutoApproval' => '',
  'blog_step' => '10',
  'bx_avatar_permalinks' => 'on',
  'bx_avatar_quality' => '100',
  'bx_avatar_site_avatars' => '',
  'max_blogs_on_home' => '10',
  'max_blogs_on_profile' => '10',
  'max_blogs_on_index' => '2',
  'permalinks_module_pageac' => 'on',
  'modzzz_verify_entries_perpage_donation' => '4',
  'modzzz_verify_entries_perpage_alldonation' => '5',
  'mp_googleanalytics_injection' => 'on',
  'mp_googleanalytics_tracking_id' => 'UA-41093826-1',
  'mp_googleanalytics_permalinks' => 'on',
)
Called script: /modules/boonex/blogs/blogs.php
Request parameters:
Array
(
    [action] => show_member_post
    [postUri] => Long-Distance-Relationships
)