Error
Database query error
Query:
SELECT `id`, `user_id`, `data` FROM `sys_sessions` WHERE `id`='' LIMIT 1
Mysql error:
Table './heromatc_upgrademerged/sys_sessions' is marked as crashed and should be repaired
Found error in the file '/home/heromatc/public_html/inc/classes/BxDolSessionQuery.php' at line 28.
Called 'getRow' function with erroneous argument #0.

Debug backtrace:
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For the first Blog, I’m going to talk about my first interaction with Alison in early 2000.

I first made contact with her in January 2000.  She was a student at the time and after several messages back and forth we exchanged phone numbers.  I remember being nervous about calling her, her profile was perfect for me.  I still remember her username, “DocTaz.”

What she didn’t know is that the Looney Tunes character Tazmanian Devil had long been my favorite character of mine from any cartoon.  And this is saying a lot considering the amount of cartoons that I used to watch.

I don’t remember all the details of her profile.  I do remember some key elements that caught my attention.  She had hazel eyes, she enjoyed singing, and the most important detail was her description of herself, she said that she was, “a strong woman looking for a stronger man.”  That was it!  That was who I was looking for, I had found my match.  Over these 13+ years of being together, that has sometimes backfired on me, but it has always been worth it.

So, our first phone call early February 1, 2000; we chatted for probably 15-20 minutes.  We learned that we grew up in neighboring towns, somewhat rivaling high schools, and even graduated high school the same year, 1994.  We now lived 90 miles apart but grew up only 15 minutes from each other.  It took us six years after high school to meet, but that’s OK, I wouldn’t have been ready for her right after high school.

As our first phone call continued, I asked her out for the first time.  I was suave, or so I thought.  I had planned not on asking if she would like to go on a date, I asked her if Friday or Saturday worked better for her.  I had spent some time as a telemarketer shortly after high school, and was convinced that leading questions more often than not result in a preferred answer.  This hadn’t failed me in the past when it came to asking for a date, so I was a little taken aback when she said that neither worked for her.  She claimed that she had a test on Monday, and that she would be studying all weekend.  At the time, and not knowing the type of person that she was, I thought that no one needed to study all weekend for a test.

But I was not one to back down so easily, and recalling her profile that she was looking for a stronger man, I asked her about the following Friday and Saturday.  Again, I was shot down; she had another Monday exam that would require her to study all weekend.  I wasn’t desperate though, so I took what I saw was a hint, she didn’t want to go on a date with me.  I told her to let me know when a good day would be her, and she said that she would get back to me.

We exchanged a few more emails in the next two days, and then had another phone call.  She said that Saturday, February 19, 2000 would work for her.  I was surprised and excited.

Because she was honest on her profile, I knew what she liked to do, and I knew what she liked to eat.  I planned for a somewhat long date that would give us an opportunity to get to know each other, but you’ll have to wait for another blog post to read about it.

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For the first Blog, I’m going to talk about my first interaction with Alison in early 2000.

I first made contact with her in January 2000.  She was a student at the time and after several messages back and forth we exchanged phone numbers.  I remember being nervous about calling her, her profile was perfect for me.  I still remember her username, “DocTaz.”

What she didn’t know is that the Looney Tunes character Tazmanian Devil had long been my favorite character of mine from any cartoon.  And this is saying a lot considering the amount of cartoons that I used to watch.

I don’t remember all the details of her profile.  I do remember some key elements that caught my attention.  She had hazel eyes, she enjoyed singing, and the most important detail was her description of herself, she said that she was, “a strong woman looking for a stronger man.”  That was it!  That was who I was looking for, I had found my match.  Over these 13+ years of being together, that has sometimes backfired on me, but it has always been worth it.

So, our first phone call early February 1, 2000; we chatted for probably 15-20 minutes.  We learned that we grew up in neighboring towns, somewhat rivaling high schools, and even graduated high school the same year, 1994.  We now lived 90 miles apart but grew up only 15 minutes from each other.  It took us six years after high school to meet, but that’s OK, I wouldn’t have been ready for her right after high school.

As our first phone call continued, I asked her out for the first time.  I was suave, or so I thought.  I had planned not on asking if she would like to go on a date, I asked her if Friday or Saturday worked better for her.  I had spent some time as a telemarketer shortly after high school, and was convinced that leading questions more often than not result in a preferred answer.  This hadn’t failed me in the past when it came to asking for a date, so I was a little taken aback when she said that neither worked for her.  She claimed that she had a test on Monday, and that she would be studying all weekend.  At the time, and not knowing the type of person that she was, I thought that no one needed to study all weekend for a test.

But I was not one to back down so easily, and recalling her profile that she was looking for a stronger man, I asked her about the following Friday and Saturday.  Again, I was shot down; she had another Monday exam that would require her to study all weekend.  I wasn’t desperate though, so I took what I saw was a hint, she didn’t want to go on a date with me.  I told her to let me know when a good day would be her, and she said that she would get back to me.

We exchanged a few more emails in the next two days, and then had another phone call.  She said that Saturday, February 19, 2000 would work for her.  I was surprised and excited.

Because she was honest on her profile, I knew what she liked to do, and I knew what she liked to eat.  I planned for a somewhat long date that would give us an opportunity to get to know each other, but you’ll have to wait for another blog post to read about it.

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First interaction with Alison - How it all started

For the first Blog, I’m going to talk about my first interaction with Alison in early 2000.

I first made contact with her in January 2000.  She was a student at the time and after several messages back and forth we exchanged phone numbers.  I remember being nervous about calling her, her profile was perfect for me.  I still remember her username, “DocTaz.”

What she didn’t know is that the Looney Tunes character Tazmanian Devil had long been my favorite character of mine from any cartoon.  And this is saying a lot considering the amount of cartoons that I used to watch.

I don’t remember all the details of her profile.  I do remember some key elements that caught my attention.  She had hazel eyes, she enjoyed singing, and the most important detail was her description of herself, she said that she was, “a strong woman looking for a stronger man.”  That was it!  That was who I was looking for, I had found my match.  Over these 13+ years of being together, that has sometimes backfired on me, but it has always been worth it.

So, our first phone call early February 1, 2000; we chatted for probably 15-20 minutes.  We learned that we grew up in neighboring towns, somewhat rivaling high schools, and even graduated high school the same year, 1994.  We now lived 90 miles apart but grew up only 15 minutes from each other.  It took us six years after high school to meet, but that’s OK, I wouldn’t have been ready for her right after high school.

As our first phone call continued, I asked her out for the first time.  I was suave, or so I thought.  I had planned not on asking if she would like to go on a date, I asked her if Friday or Saturday worked better for her.  I had spent some time as a telemarketer shortly after high school, and was convinced that leading questions more often than not result in a preferred answer.  This hadn’t failed me in the past when it came to asking for a date, so I was a little taken aback when she said that neither worked for her.  She claimed that she had a test on Monday, and that she would be studying all weekend.  At the time, and not knowing the type of person that she was, I thought that no one needed to study all weekend for a test.

But I was not one to back down so easily, and recalling her profile that she was looking for a stronger man, I asked her about the following Friday and Saturday.  Again, I was shot down; she had another Monday exam that would require her to study all weekend.  I wasn’t desperate though, so I took what I saw was a hint, she didn’t want to go on a date with me.  I told her to let me know when a good day would be her, and she said that she would get back to me.

We exchanged a few more emails in the next two days, and then had another phone call.  She said that Saturday, February 19, 2000 would work for her.  I was surprised and excited.

Because she was honest on her profile, I knew what she liked to do, and I knew what she liked to eat.  I planned for a somewhat long date that would give us an opportunity to get to know each other, but you’ll have to wait for another blog post to read about it.

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For the first Blog, I’m going to talk about my first interaction with Alison in early 2000.

I first made contact with her in January 2000.  She was a student at the time and after several messages back and forth we exchanged phone numbers.  I remember being nervous about calling her, her profile was perfect for me.  I still remember her username, “DocTaz.”

What she didn’t know is that the Looney Tunes character Tazmanian Devil had long been my favorite character of mine from any cartoon.  And this is saying a lot considering the amount of cartoons that I used to watch.

I don’t remember all the details of her profile.  I do remember some key elements that caught my attention.  She had hazel eyes, she enjoyed singing, and the most important detail was her description of herself, she said that she was, “a strong woman looking for a stronger man.”  That was it!  That was who I was looking for, I had found my match.  Over these 13+ years of being together, that has sometimes backfired on me, but it has always been worth it.

So, our first phone call early February 1, 2000; we chatted for probably 15-20 minutes.  We learned that we grew up in neighboring towns, somewhat rivaling high schools, and even graduated high school the same year, 1994.  We now lived 90 miles apart but grew up only 15 minutes from each other.  It took us six years after high school to meet, but that’s OK, I wouldn’t have been ready for her right after high school.

As our first phone call continued, I asked her out for the first time.  I was suave, or so I thought.  I had planned not on asking if she would like to go on a date, I asked her if Friday or Saturday worked better for her.  I had spent some time as a telemarketer shortly after high school, and was convinced that leading questions more often than not result in a preferred answer.  This hadn’t failed me in the past when it came to asking for a date, so I was a little taken aback when she said that neither worked for her.  She claimed that she had a test on Monday, and that she would be studying all weekend.  At the time, and not knowing the type of person that she was, I thought that no one needed to study all weekend for a test.

But I was not one to back down so easily, and recalling her profile that she was looking for a stronger man, I asked her about the following Friday and Saturday.  Again, I was shot down; she had another Monday exam that would require her to study all weekend.  I wasn’t desperate though, so I took what I saw was a hint, she didn’t want to go on a date with me.  I told her to let me know when a good day would be her, and she said that she would get back to me.

We exchanged a few more emails in the next two days, and then had another phone call.  She said that Saturday, February 19, 2000 would work for her.  I was surprised and excited.

Because she was honest on her profile, I knew what she liked to do, and I knew what she liked to eat.  I planned for a somewhat long date that would give us an opportunity to get to know each other, but you’ll have to wait for another blog post to read about it.

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First interaction with Alison - How it all started

For the first Blog, I’m going to talk about my first interaction with Alison in early 2000.

I first made contact with her in January 2000.  She was a student at the time and after several messages back and forth we exchanged phone numbers.  I remember being nervous about calling her, her profile was perfect for me.  I still remember her username, “DocTaz.”

What she didn’t know is that the Looney Tunes character Tazmanian Devil had long been my favorite character of mine from any cartoon.  And this is saying a lot considering the amount of cartoons that I used to watch.

I don’t remember all the details of her profile.  I do remember some key elements that caught my attention.  She had hazel eyes, she enjoyed singing, and the most important detail was her description of herself, she said that she was, “a strong woman looking for a stronger man.”  That was it!  That was who I was looking for, I had found my match.  Over these 13+ years of being together, that has sometimes backfired on me, but it has always been worth it.

So, our first phone call early February 1, 2000; we chatted for probably 15-20 minutes.  We learned that we grew up in neighboring towns, somewhat rivaling high schools, and even graduated high school the same year, 1994.  We now lived 90 miles apart but grew up only 15 minutes from each other.  It took us six years after high school to meet, but that’s OK, I wouldn’t have been ready for her right after high school.

As our first phone call continued, I asked her out for the first time.  I was suave, or so I thought.  I had planned not on asking if she would like to go on a date, I asked her if Friday or Saturday worked better for her.  I had spent some time as a telemarketer shortly after high school, and was convinced that leading questions more often than not result in a preferred answer.  This hadn’t failed me in the past when it came to asking for a date, so I was a little taken aback when she said that neither worked for her.  She claimed that she had a test on Monday, and that she would be studying all weekend.  At the time, and not knowing the type of person that she was, I thought that no one needed to study all weekend for a test.

But I was not one to back down so easily, and recalling her profile that she was looking for a stronger man, I asked her about the following Friday and Saturday.  Again, I was shot down; she had another Monday exam that would require her to study all weekend.  I wasn’t desperate though, so I took what I saw was a hint, she didn’t want to go on a date with me.  I told her to let me know when a good day would be her, and she said that she would get back to me.

We exchanged a few more emails in the next two days, and then had another phone call.  She said that Saturday, February 19, 2000 would work for her.  I was surprised and excited.

Because she was honest on her profile, I knew what she liked to do, and I knew what she liked to eat.  I planned for a somewhat long date that would give us an opportunity to get to know each other, but you’ll have to wait for another blog post to read about it.

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For the first Blog, I’m going to talk about my first interaction with Alison in early 2000.

I first made contact with her in January 2000.  She was a student at the time and after several messages back and forth we exchanged phone numbers.  I remember being nervous about calling her, her profile was perfect for me.  I still remember her username, “DocTaz.”

What she didn’t know is that the Looney Tunes character Tazmanian Devil had long been my favorite character of mine from any cartoon.  And this is saying a lot considering the amount of cartoons that I used to watch.

I don’t remember all the details of her profile.  I do remember some key elements that caught my attention.  She had hazel eyes, she enjoyed singing, and the most important detail was her description of herself, she said that she was, “a strong woman looking for a stronger man.”  That was it!  That was who I was looking for, I had found my match.  Over these 13+ years of being together, that has sometimes backfired on me, but it has always been worth it.

So, our first phone call early February 1, 2000; we chatted for probably 15-20 minutes.  We learned that we grew up in neighboring towns, somewhat rivaling high schools, and even graduated high school the same year, 1994.  We now lived 90 miles apart but grew up only 15 minutes from each other.  It took us six years after high school to meet, but that’s OK, I wouldn’t have been ready for her right after high school.

As our first phone call continued, I asked her out for the first time.  I was suave, or so I thought.  I had planned not on asking if she would like to go on a date, I asked her if Friday or Saturday worked better for her.  I had spent some time as a telemarketer shortly after high school, and was convinced that leading questions more often than not result in a preferred answer.  This hadn’t failed me in the past when it came to asking for a date, so I was a little taken aback when she said that neither worked for her.  She claimed that she had a test on Monday, and that she would be studying all weekend.  At the time, and not knowing the type of person that she was, I thought that no one needed to study all weekend for a test.

But I was not one to back down so easily, and recalling her profile that she was looking for a stronger man, I asked her about the following Friday and Saturday.  Again, I was shot down; she had another Monday exam that would require her to study all weekend.  I wasn’t desperate though, so I took what I saw was a hint, she didn’t want to go on a date with me.  I told her to let me know when a good day would be her, and she said that she would get back to me.

We exchanged a few more emails in the next two days, and then had another phone call.  She said that Saturday, February 19, 2000 would work for her.  I was surprised and excited.

Because she was honest on her profile, I knew what she liked to do, and I knew what she liked to eat.  I planned for a somewhat long date that would give us an opportunity to get to know each other, but you’ll have to wait for another blog post to read about it.

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First interaction with Alison - How it all started

For the first Blog, I’m going to talk about my first interaction with Alison in early 2000.

I first made contact with her in January 2000.  She was a student at the time and after several messages back and forth we exchanged phone numbers.  I remember being nervous about calling her, her profile was perfect for me.  I still remember her username, “DocTaz.”

What she didn’t know is that the Looney Tunes character Tazmanian Devil had long been my favorite character of mine from any cartoon.  And this is saying a lot considering the amount of cartoons that I used to watch.

I don’t remember all the details of her profile.  I do remember some key elements that caught my attention.  She had hazel eyes, she enjoyed singing, and the most important detail was her description of herself, she said that she was, “a strong woman looking for a stronger man.”  That was it!  That was who I was looking for, I had found my match.  Over these 13+ years of being together, that has sometimes backfired on me, but it has always been worth it.

So, our first phone call early February 1, 2000; we chatted for probably 15-20 minutes.  We learned that we grew up in neighboring towns, somewhat rivaling high schools, and even graduated high school the same year, 1994.  We now lived 90 miles apart but grew up only 15 minutes from each other.  It took us six years after high school to meet, but that’s OK, I wouldn’t have been ready for her right after high school.

As our first phone call continued, I asked her out for the first time.  I was suave, or so I thought.  I had planned not on asking if she would like to go on a date, I asked her if Friday or Saturday worked better for her.  I had spent some time as a telemarketer shortly after high school, and was convinced that leading questions more often than not result in a preferred answer.  This hadn’t failed me in the past when it came to asking for a date, so I was a little taken aback when she said that neither worked for her.  She claimed that she had a test on Monday, and that she would be studying all weekend.  At the time, and not knowing the type of person that she was, I thought that no one needed to study all weekend for a test.

But I was not one to back down so easily, and recalling her profile that she was looking for a stronger man, I asked her about the following Friday and Saturday.  Again, I was shot down; she had another Monday exam that would require her to study all weekend.  I wasn’t desperate though, so I took what I saw was a hint, she didn’t want to go on a date with me.  I told her to let me know when a good day would be her, and she said that she would get back to me.

We exchanged a few more emails in the next two days, and then had another phone call.  She said that Saturday, February 19, 2000 would work for her.  I was surprised and excited.

Because she was honest on her profile, I knew what she liked to do, and I knew what she liked to eat.  I planned for a somewhat long date that would give us an opportunity to get to know each other, but you’ll have to wait for another blog post to read about it.

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    This is a great blog post! So exciting to read....but I'm waiting for the second installment! What happened on the date?

     
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For the first Blog, I’m going to talk about my first interaction with Alison in early 2000.

I first made contact with her in January 2000.  She was a student at the time and after several messages back and forth we exchanged phone numbers.  I remember being nervous about calling her, her profile was perfect for me.  I still remember her username, “DocTaz.”

What she didn’t know is that the Looney Tunes character Tazmanian Devil had long been my favorite character of mine from any cartoon.  And this is saying a lot considering the amount of cartoons that I used to watch.

I don’t remember all the details of her profile.  I do remember some key elements that caught my attention.  She had hazel eyes, she enjoyed singing, and the most important detail was her description of herself, she said that she was, “a strong woman looking for a stronger man.”  That was it!  That was who I was looking for, I had found my match.  Over these 13+ years of being together, that has sometimes backfired on me, but it has always been worth it.

So, our first phone call early February 1, 2000; we chatted for probably 15-20 minutes.  We learned that we grew up in neighboring towns, somewhat rivaling high schools, and even graduated high school the same year, 1994.  We now lived 90 miles apart but grew up only 15 minutes from each other.  It took us six years after high school to meet, but that’s OK, I wouldn’t have been ready for her right after high school.

As our first phone call continued, I asked her out for the first time.  I was suave, or so I thought.  I had planned not on asking if she would like to go on a date, I asked her if Friday or Saturday worked better for her.  I had spent some time as a telemarketer shortly after high school, and was convinced that leading questions more often than not result in a preferred answer.  This hadn’t failed me in the past when it came to asking for a date, so I was a little taken aback when she said that neither worked for her.  She claimed that she had a test on Monday, and that she would be studying all weekend.  At the time, and not knowing the type of person that she was, I thought that no one needed to study all weekend for a test.

But I was not one to back down so easily, and recalling her profile that she was looking for a stronger man, I asked her about the following Friday and Saturday.  Again, I was shot down; she had another Monday exam that would require her to study all weekend.  I wasn’t desperate though, so I took what I saw was a hint, she didn’t want to go on a date with me.  I told her to let me know when a good day would be her, and she said that she would get back to me.

We exchanged a few more emails in the next two days, and then had another phone call.  She said that Saturday, February 19, 2000 would work for her.  I was surprised and excited.

Because she was honest on her profile, I knew what she liked to do, and I knew what she liked to eat.  I planned for a somewhat long date that would give us an opportunity to get to know each other, but you’ll have to wait for another blog post to read about it.

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First interaction with Alison - How it all started

For the first Blog, I’m going to talk about my first interaction with Alison in early 2000.

I first made contact with her in January 2000.  She was a student at the time and after several messages back and forth we exchanged phone numbers.  I remember being nervous about calling her, her profile was perfect for me.  I still remember her username, “DocTaz.”

What she didn’t know is that the Looney Tunes character Tazmanian Devil had long been my favorite character of mine from any cartoon.  And this is saying a lot considering the amount of cartoons that I used to watch.

I don’t remember all the details of her profile.  I do remember some key elements that caught my attention.  She had hazel eyes, she enjoyed singing, and the most important detail was her description of herself, she said that she was, “a strong woman looking for a stronger man.”  That was it!  That was who I was looking for, I had found my match.  Over these 13+ years of being together, that has sometimes backfired on me, but it has always been worth it.

So, our first phone call early February 1, 2000; we chatted for probably 15-20 minutes.  We learned that we grew up in neighboring towns, somewhat rivaling high schools, and even graduated high school the same year, 1994.  We now lived 90 miles apart but grew up only 15 minutes from each other.  It took us six years after high school to meet, but that’s OK, I wouldn’t have been ready for her right after high school.

As our first phone call continued, I asked her out for the first time.  I was suave, or so I thought.  I had planned not on asking if she would like to go on a date, I asked her if Friday or Saturday worked better for her.  I had spent some time as a telemarketer shortly after high school, and was convinced that leading questions more often than not result in a preferred answer.  This hadn’t failed me in the past when it came to asking for a date, so I was a little taken aback when she said that neither worked for her.  She claimed that she had a test on Monday, and that she would be studying all weekend.  At the time, and not knowing the type of person that she was, I thought that no one needed to study all weekend for a test.

But I was not one to back down so easily, and recalling her profile that she was looking for a stronger man, I asked her about the following Friday and Saturday.  Again, I was shot down; she had another Monday exam that would require her to study all weekend.  I wasn’t desperate though, so I took what I saw was a hint, she didn’t want to go on a date with me.  I told her to let me know when a good day would be her, and she said that she would get back to me.

We exchanged a few more emails in the next two days, and then had another phone call.  She said that Saturday, February 19, 2000 would work for her.  I was surprised and excited.

Because she was honest on her profile, I knew what she liked to do, and I knew what she liked to eat.  I planned for a somewhat long date that would give us an opportunity to get to know each other, but you’ll have to wait for another blog post to read about it.

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For the first Blog, I’m going to talk about my first interaction with Alison in early 2000.

I first made contact with her in January 2000.  She was a student at the time and after several messages back and forth we exchanged phone numbers.  I remember being nervous about calling her, her profile was perfect for me.  I still remember her username, “DocTaz.”

What she didn’t know is that the Looney Tunes character Tazmanian Devil had long been my favorite character of mine from any cartoon.  And this is saying a lot considering the amount of cartoons that I used to watch.

I don’t remember all the details of her profile.  I do remember some key elements that caught my attention.  She had hazel eyes, she enjoyed singing, and the most important detail was her description of herself, she said that she was, “a strong woman looking for a stronger man.”  That was it!  That was who I was looking for, I had found my match.  Over these 13+ years of being together, that has sometimes backfired on me, but it has always been worth it.

So, our first phone call early February 1, 2000; we chatted for probably 15-20 minutes.  We learned that we grew up in neighboring towns, somewhat rivaling high schools, and even graduated high school the same year, 1994.  We now lived 90 miles apart but grew up only 15 minutes from each other.  It took us six years after high school to meet, but that’s OK, I wouldn’t have been ready for her right after high school.

As our first phone call continued, I asked her out for the first time.  I was suave, or so I thought.  I had planned not on asking if she would like to go on a date, I asked her if Friday or Saturday worked better for her.  I had spent some time as a telemarketer shortly after high school, and was convinced that leading questions more often than not result in a preferred answer.  This hadn’t failed me in the past when it came to asking for a date, so I was a little taken aback when she said that neither worked for her.  She claimed that she had a test on Monday, and that she would be studying all weekend.  At the time, and not knowing the type of person that she was, I thought that no one needed to study all weekend for a test.

But I was not one to back down so easily, and recalling her profile that she was looking for a stronger man, I asked her about the following Friday and Saturday.  Again, I was shot down; she had another Monday exam that would require her to study all weekend.  I wasn’t desperate though, so I took what I saw was a hint, she didn’t want to go on a date with me.  I told her to let me know when a good day would be her, and she said that she would get back to me.

We exchanged a few more emails in the next two days, and then had another phone call.  She said that Saturday, February 19, 2000 would work for her.  I was surprised and excited.

Because she was honest on her profile, I knew what she liked to do, and I knew what she liked to eat.  I planned for a somewhat long date that would give us an opportunity to get to know each other, but you’ll have to wait for another blog post to read about it.

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First interaction with Alison - How it all started

For the first Blog, I’m going to talk about my first interaction with Alison in early 2000.

I first made contact with her in January 2000.  She was a student at the time and after several messages back and forth we exchanged phone numbers.  I remember being nervous about calling her, her profile was perfect for me.  I still remember her username, “DocTaz.”

What she didn’t know is that the Looney Tunes character Tazmanian Devil had long been my favorite character of mine from any cartoon.  And this is saying a lot considering the amount of cartoons that I used to watch.

I don’t remember all the details of her profile.  I do remember some key elements that caught my attention.  She had hazel eyes, she enjoyed singing, and the most important detail was her description of herself, she said that she was, “a strong woman looking for a stronger man.”  That was it!  That was who I was looking for, I had found my match.  Over these 13+ years of being together, that has sometimes backfired on me, but it has always been worth it.

So, our first phone call early February 1, 2000; we chatted for probably 15-20 minutes.  We learned that we grew up in neighboring towns, somewhat rivaling high schools, and even graduated high school the same year, 1994.  We now lived 90 miles apart but grew up only 15 minutes from each other.  It took us six years after high school to meet, but that’s OK, I wouldn’t have been ready for her right after high school.

As our first phone call continued, I asked her out for the first time.  I was suave, or so I thought.  I had planned not on asking if she would like to go on a date, I asked her if Friday or Saturday worked better for her.  I had spent some time as a telemarketer shortly after high school, and was convinced that leading questions more often than not result in a preferred answer.  This hadn’t failed me in the past when it came to asking for a date, so I was a little taken aback when she said that neither worked for her.  She claimed that she had a test on Monday, and that she would be studying all weekend.  At the time, and not knowing the type of person that she was, I thought that no one needed to study all weekend for a test.

But I was not one to back down so easily, and recalling her profile that she was looking for a stronger man, I asked her about the following Friday and Saturday.  Again, I was shot down; she had another Monday exam that would require her to study all weekend.  I wasn’t desperate though, so I took what I saw was a hint, she didn’t want to go on a date with me.  I told her to let me know when a good day would be her, and she said that she would get back to me.

We exchanged a few more emails in the next two days, and then had another phone call.  She said that Saturday, February 19, 2000 would work for her.  I was surprised and excited.

Because she was honest on her profile, I knew what she liked to do, and I knew what she liked to eat.  I planned for a somewhat long date that would give us an opportunity to get to know each other, but you’ll have to wait for another blog post to read about it.

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For the first Blog, I’m going to talk about my first interaction with Alison in early 2000.

I first made contact with her in January 2000.  She was a student at the time and after several messages back and forth we exchanged phone numbers.  I remember being nervous about calling her, her profile was perfect for me.  I still remember her username, “DocTaz.”

What she didn’t know is that the Looney Tunes character Tazmanian Devil had long been my favorite character of mine from any cartoon.  And this is saying a lot considering the amount of cartoons that I used to watch.

I don’t remember all the details of her profile.  I do remember some key elements that caught my attention.  She had hazel eyes, she enjoyed singing, and the most important detail was her description of herself, she said that she was, “a strong woman looking for a stronger man.”  That was it!  That was who I was looking for, I had found my match.  Over these 13+ years of being together, that has sometimes backfired on me, but it has always been worth it.

So, our first phone call early February 1, 2000; we chatted for probably 15-20 minutes.  We learned that we grew up in neighboring towns, somewhat rivaling high schools, and even graduated high school the same year, 1994.  We now lived 90 miles apart but grew up only 15 minutes from each other.  It took us six years after high school to meet, but that’s OK, I wouldn’t have been ready for her right after high school.

As our first phone call continued, I asked her out for the first time.  I was suave, or so I thought.  I had planned not on asking if she would like to go on a date, I asked her if Friday or Saturday worked better for her.  I had spent some time as a telemarketer shortly after high school, and was convinced that leading questions more often than not result in a preferred answer.  This hadn’t failed me in the past when it came to asking for a date, so I was a little taken aback when she said that neither worked for her.  She claimed that she had a test on Monday, and that she would be studying all weekend.  At the time, and not knowing the type of person that she was, I thought that no one needed to study all weekend for a test.

But I was not one to back down so easily, and recalling her profile that she was looking for a stronger man, I asked her about the following Friday and Saturday.  Again, I was shot down; she had another Monday exam that would require her to study all weekend.  I wasn’t desperate though, so I took what I saw was a hint, she didn’t want to go on a date with me.  I told her to let me know when a good day would be her, and she said that she would get back to me.

We exchanged a few more emails in the next two days, and then had another phone call.  She said that Saturday, February 19, 2000 would work for her.  I was surprised and excited.

Because she was honest on her profile, I knew what she liked to do, and I knew what she liked to eat.  I planned for a somewhat long date that would give us an opportunity to get to know each other, but you’ll have to wait for another blog post to read about it.

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For the first Blog, I’m going to talk about my first interaction with Alison in early 2000.

I first made contact with her in January 2000.  She was a student at the time and after several messages back and forth we exchanged phone numbers.  I remember being nervous about calling her, her profile was perfect for me.  I still remember her username, “DocTaz.”

What she didn’t know is that the Looney Tunes character Tazmanian Devil had long been my favorite character of mine from any cartoon.  And this is saying a lot considering the amount of cartoons that I used to watch.

I don’t remember all the details of her profile.  I do remember some key elements that caught my attention.  She had hazel eyes, she enjoyed singing, and the most important detail was her description of herself, she said that she was, “a strong woman looking for a stronger man.”  That was it!  That was who I was looking for, I had found my match.  Over these 13+ years of being together, that has sometimes backfired on me, but it has always been worth it.

So, our first phone call early February 1, 2000; we chatted for probably 15-20 minutes.  We learned that we grew up in neighboring towns, somewhat rivaling high schools, and even graduated high school the same year, 1994.  We now lived 90 miles apart but grew up only 15 minutes from each other.  It took us six years after high school to meet, but that’s OK, I wouldn’t have been ready for her right after high school.

As our first phone call continued, I asked her out for the first time.  I was suave, or so I thought.  I had planned not on asking if she would like to go on a date, I asked her if Friday or Saturday worked better for her.  I had spent some time as a telemarketer shortly after high school, and was convinced that leading questions more often than not result in a preferred answer.  This hadn’t failed me in the past when it came to asking for a date, so I was a little taken aback when she said that neither worked for her.  She claimed that she had a test on Monday, and that she would be studying all weekend.  At the time, and not knowing the type of person that she was, I thought that no one needed to study all weekend for a test.

But I was not one to back down so easily, and recalling her profile that she was looking for a stronger man, I asked her about the following Friday and Saturday.  Again, I was shot down; she had another Monday exam that would require her to study all weekend.  I wasn’t desperate though, so I took what I saw was a hint, she didn’t want to go on a date with me.  I told her to let me know when a good day would be her, and she said that she would get back to me.

We exchanged a few more emails in the next two days, and then had another phone call.  She said that Saturday, February 19, 2000 would work for her.  I was surprised and excited.

Because she was honest on her profile, I knew what she liked to do, and I knew what she liked to eat.  I planned for a somewhat long date that would give us an opportunity to get to know each other, but you’ll have to wait for another blog post to read about it.

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  'bx_avatar_site_avatars' => '',
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  'mp_googleanalytics_permalinks' => 'on',
)
Called script: /modules/boonex/blogs/blogs.php
Request parameters:
Array
(
    [action] => show_member_post
    [postUri] => First-interaction-with-Alison-How-it-all-started
)